Well... Divorce starts tomorrow...

Damn bro sorry to hear that ! I sincerely hope things go smooth ! What exactly starts tomorrow? Court stuff ?
 
So sorry to hear that I have been through it and lost everything. 15 years later I have the best wife in the world and my toys back ans then some! My point is, you will be good bro! Keep your head up and look to the future!
 
Thanks for the encouragement guys. I am hoping to salvage it. We will see. She met with a lawyer today, is drafting paperwork tomorrow. I will not contest it if it is really what she wants.
 
If she wants to leave let her leave. I know it's easier said than done. I've been there brother. Good luck..
 
I very much question why men marry at all - given the financial and emotional loss they undergo through divorce. i am married with kids. but have been hearing from a lot of friends that the wife served them divorce papers and cleaning them up. very confusing. i feel sorry for my son as to what awaits him in the future.
 
I thwarted that disaster. I attribute most of the issues to years of birth control use for her and coming off. Really just a major turning point for all of us.

Thanks for checking in bro. It is literally a day to day deal learning to basically ignore her spontaneous raw emotions, lol.
 
I keep telling her that it is like doing a heavy cycle and just coming off cold turkey. She seems to be starting to understand.
 
I know that I went through it, and it sucked. But now, I have an amazing girl who makes bank, is totally infatuated with me, and will do anything and everything that I ask. She spoils me and I have not a single want in the world. Back when I was going through my divorce, I thought the world would end and I would be miserable and alone for the rest of my life. That divorce ended up being the best thing I ever did. lol
 
Things got a lot better. My wife is now exercising and watching her diet with an app. She is doing well with it. I told her lifting weights hands down is the best way to boost confidence and positive body image. Also with helping her hormones get back in line. After two kids back to back it is really hard on a woman's pysche. The hardest thing is for us to find time to unwind and sleep since the baby is needing a lot of attention right now at night time. Keeps us active though.
 
I also went through a divorce and it was a real relief for me. Now I am free and I plan to find myself a more serious and sweet woman than my ex. I'm thinking of trying a dating site uniformdating.com and try to build a relationship with a female soldier. Do you think it's worth a try? I have never had relationships with women of this profession.
 
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