Relationship rant

[Metal85]

Why is it that any time someone has a good relationship people tell them they are lucky?
I'm tired of fucking hearing this about mine, especially since deserving and lucky are pretty fucking far apart.
If you work hard on a relationship and do everything done needed to have it, it's not luck.
If you buy materials, spend 8 weeks in your yard, and construct a shed, you are not lucky to have a shed, you worked for it.

Someone that doesn't even know me, but knows my wife just said 'lucky guy' about our length of our relationship, pretty fucking annoying.


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[Get_Swole]

Why is it that any time someone has a good relationship people tell them they are lucky?
I'm tired of fucking hearing this about mine, especially since deserving and lucky are pretty fucking far apart.
If you work hard on a relationship and do everything done needed to have it, it's not luck.
If you buy materials, spend 8 weeks in your yard, and construct a shed, you are not lucky to have a shed, you worked for it.

Someone that doesn't even know me, but knows my wife just said 'lucky guy' about our length of our relationship, pretty fucking annoying.


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I agree bro it's stupid. My girl and I have a great relationship as well. We live together, work together, and do just about everything else together cept for the gym...which I'm hoping to change so she will join me lol. We get along 99% of the time and we don't argue, we have conversations on what is bothering us. I say if we are lucky it's just that our paths crossed has nothing to do with us maintaining a good relationship that is the hard work.

 

[Metal85]

I agree bro it's stupid. My girl and I have a great relationship as well. We live together, work together, and do just about everything else together cept for the gym...which I'm hoping to change so she will join me lol. We get along 99% of the time and we don't argue, we have conversations on what is bothering us. I say if we are lucky it's just that our paths crossed has nothing to do with us maintaining a good relationship that is the hard work.

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[dorian123]

A relationship is something you have to work at everyday-you have good days and bad days, you learn make them work

anything that is worth having is worth working for and nobody said it's going to be easy

you gotta take the good with the bad

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A relationship is something you have to work at everyday-you have good days and bad days, you learn make them work

anything that is worth having is worth working for and nobody said it's going to be easy

you gotta take the good with the bad

 

[dorian123]

most people that say you are lucky don't see the work that you put in...

just like there are people that say something was given to you? No I worked for it, I worked for 20 inch arms I worked for a relationship I worked for my vehicle

 

[guardianactual]

Very good point metal. Luck has nothing to do with hard work, determination etc. It's like lifting, you get what you put in. No one says "Hey your jacked, lucky you." Like it fell in you lap. Never thought of that, sir, I like the way you think.

 

[SilkQuads]

I agree with all of you. It's WORK, not luck and the work is totally worth it You MC guys are so smart!

 

[Metal85]

I'm glad everyone writing on here understands what I am saying, and agrees. The stuff I went through to make my relationship work, not any 1 friend of mine would have done, yet they are the first to say 'lucky' Yes I have an amazing Beautiful Wife, she has a good job, she works hard, but the best thing is we laugh every single day, every day. We have been together almost 9 years. The 1st year her mom did everything in her power to separate us, we didn't spend a full night w each other until we were together for a year! That was at 22 & 23 years old lol She isn't a bitch, she doesn't get bitchy and blame hormones like 90% of women, there's not an excuse, but I don't yell, I don't cheat, I don't go out to bars or clubs, I don't have to have "boys nights out" etc etc etc

 

[viciouscycle]

Some may consider you lucky out of envy.
I've been with my wife for 15 years. She is my best friend and we do everything together.she doesn't care for my aas use but turns a blind eye to it. I think sometimes she may push my buttons just to see of I am on cycle and if I loose my temper, but all in all life is good. I agree that luck doesn't have much to do with us being happy. It's hard work and give and take from both sides that makes it good!!

 

[Metal85]

Some may consider you lucky out of envy.
I've been with my wife for 15 years. She is my best friend and we do everything together.she doesn't care for my aas use but turns a blind eye to it. I think sometimes she may push my buttons just to see of I am on cycle and if I loose my temper, but all in all life is good. I agree that luck doesn't have much to do with us being happy. It's hard work and give and take from both sides that makes it good!!

It's typically the reason I believe

 

[guardianactual]

There are those who work 4 nothing and put forth 0 effort they think those who go through hell 4 the things they love are 'lucky' unable to understand it any other way... We all know the type... They claim they try hard work hard and bust their ass to get ahead, but in reality they bitch n moan while putting in a half assed job. Then there are those who win the powerball those are the lucky ones LMAO

 

[The Dude]

I guess I'll be the odd man out here. While I would never withhold the congratulations that someone in a successful marriage with a beautiful spouse, great business accomplishments, or any other accomplishment deserves, I do believe that God (or who ever or whatever you believe in) gives us gifts. While they require work they are opportunities for reward. Silk and I have had some serious issues, but I dont ever claim to be 100% responsible for the gifts I have received in my life. Too many times I have faced nearly certain failure or catastrophic circumstances and I've received a miracle at the final moment. I believe it to be a reward for my faith and determination. I have had two such miracles in the last three weeks...
So if I ever say someone is fortunate or "lucky" it by no means discounts the effort that obviously went into said circumstances.

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[The Dude]

I just realized that my post was way out of character for a meat head like me, so in keeping with Presser 's assessments... ME PICK UP BIG THINGS AND PUT THEM DOWN!! Lol...

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[Metal85]

I just realized that my post was way out of character for a meat head like me, so in keeping with Presser 's assessments... ME PICK UP BIG THINGS AND PUT THEM DOWN!! Lol...

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I agree with God giving you a gift, but he doesn't give you 9 years of gift, it's up to the individual to keep the gift. I guess the 3 million good deeds I have don account for a great gift of my Wife, but I could have cheated, yelled, abused, not treated right, ignored, etc and haven't.

 

[The Dude]

I agree with God giving you a gift, but he doesn't give you 9 years of gift, it's up to the individual to keep the gift. I guess the 3 million good deeds I have don account for a great gift of my Wife, but I could have cheated, yelled, abused, not treated right, ignored, etc and haven't.

Like I said... the gift is simply an opportunity. The realization is up to you... at least that is my belief

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