My religious whacked out GF, arghhhh

[The Survivor]

OK long story short, we dated for 3 yrs, split for 4 yrs now back together about 2 months ago. Keep in mind this woman has to be bi-polar, she's a sexual freak, likes anal, like facials, has many toys and usually adores sex. But now, every so often she goes on her religious kicks, like about a month ago, and starts in about pre-martial sex being bad and we cant do it, blah blah, usually followed by a bible verse.

If this follows usual path, within a short time, she apparently decides the celebrate life isn't sustainable and back we go to the bed room. I'm not railing against religion or God as I believe too, but I really don't think God (or HIM as she calls him or her or whatever you believe) punishes people for having sex.....it just gets very annoying when she goes thru these phases. Without pissing off the fine women her have here on MC, this side of my GF is her nuts side, her physco side.

Theres gotta be other men on here who have dealt with this. When she starts with her radical views, I'm very patronizing, telling her she can think whatever she wants to as so can I. I figure why stir the pot with come backs? Its a passing thing, just another weekend of spanking the monkey I guess while I wait it out.

Anyone care to opine?? Am I handling it right? First time I ever been involved with a far right religious nutjob...her FB page has at least a dozen postings today all faith based ones...

 

[SilkQuads]

I was raised in the church and also taught that you don't have premarital sex (oops, lol) so I understand where she's coming from and would personally support her B U T she can't go back and forth like that. That's not fair to you or your relationship. She needs to decide if she going to continue having sex or wait till marriage (or whatever her belief is) and stick to it. She can't go one way or the other when it's convenient for her. I don't think that's what God intended, lol... Maybe have a talk with her. Tell her you'll support whatever decision she makes (if you actually do), but make it clear that she needs to make a decision and follow through. If you're not happy being in a sexless relationship then end things while still being supportive. Might as well end things on a positive note. If she continues to be wishy-washy even after your talk with her then I would personally break up with her. If she's wishy-washy like this then who knows how she'll be with other big decisions to come later in life.

 

[The Survivor]

Thanks for the reply Silk, I usually just wait it out and a few days later, its magically changed. She under a ton of stress (like most us) and has dire financial issues which is one of the reasons her faith is what gets her thru. I have no problems at all with that. Her views prob makes her feel better which is fine.

I really wonder how many of these, excuse the expression, holly rollers, realize that for one person they convert aka "save" they likely push another 10 away?? Not sure that's the correct ratio, but you get my point.

I just act a bit aloof like I dont care what happens and that usually brings her naughty side out LOL, but thanks for the input

 

[The Dude]

Damn man.... I've been with Silk for like 7 years and I don't know how I made it through some of the crazy shit girls do. Guys think you have to accept the crazy shit to be with a girl that enjoys sex and is a freak... that's just not true. I understand some guys need to be the rock in a relationship and I think I fulfill that role sometimes, but for me a relationship is a partnership and I need my equal.
Just like all things in life it isn't the easiest thing to do, but the results are so worth it.

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[The Survivor]

True Dude, right now I'm thinking on just getting rid of her.....at least until she can figure crap out in her life

 

[goodness]

I think you should try and support her first. sometimes supporting a woman can lead to better benefits. On another not she is acting as if she is pure ie(no sex before marriage) But obviously she isn't. She needs to realize that. But i will say that not supporting her right now will only make things worse and you'll need to break it off probably anyway. Could give it a try. Chances are you'll do without for a week or 2 showing her that you care for more other than just sex and she will come around.

 

[CH3NO2]

RUN AWAY.... FAST.

 

[LEE GASPARI]

I would end it. Life is too short to have to deal with this crap. I remember back in the day (oh Lord, talking about an old man's story, sorry) but anyway, I was going out with this holy roller and she listened to Gospel music all the time. She did not believe in intercourse, but oral sex was okay. And let me tell ya, she could suck a dick like a work of art. I mean to this day it has been the best I've ever had, and I've had a plenty. I still dream about our time together. Such a pain in the ass not being able to have intercourse with such a great looking girl. And she loved to lift weights. 1982

 

[Presser]

OK long story short, we dated for 3 yrs, split for 4 yrs now back together about 2 months ago. Keep in mind this woman has to be bi-polar, she's a sexual freak, likes anal, like facials, has many toys and usually adores sex. But now, every so often she goes on her religious kicks, like about a month ago, and starts in about pre-martial sex being bad and we cant do it, blah blah, usually followed by a bible verse.

If this follows usual path, within a short time, she apparently decides the celebrate life isn't sustainable and back we go to the bed room. I'm not railing against religion or God as I believe too, but I really don't think God (or HIM as she calls him or her or whatever you believe) punishes people for having sex.....it just gets very annoying when she goes thru these phases. Without pissing off the fine women her have here on MC, this side of my GF is her nuts side, her physco side.

Theres gotta be other men on here who have dealt with this. When she starts with her radical views, I'm very patronizing, telling her she can think whatever she wants to as so can I. I figure why stir the pot with come backs? Its a passing thing, just another weekend of spanking the monkey I guess while I wait it out.

Anyone care to opine?? Am I handling it right? First time I ever been involved with a far right religious nutjob...her FB page has at least a dozen postings today all faith based ones...

yes I will Opine, lol, They are all nuts! My wife seems bi-polar to me, and it has gotten worse the older she has gotten! Your GF sounds like a nut just like my wife is! lol

 

[IronJulius]

yall were together 3 years and now back together it sounds to me that she is wanting you to marry her. WOMEN and their crazy ass can come up with some shit

 

[Minima]

RUN AWAY.... FAST.

Agree.
Don't walk away bro run. That's what I did with a nutso chick. Then went back... three lies about being pregnant later I said fuck off.

 

[The Survivor]

yall were together 3 years and now back together it sounds to me that she is wanting you to marry her. WOMEN and their crazy ass can come up with some shit

That may be true as she has mentioned getting some sort of commitment ring, this whole thing may be a ploy to do just that, I have considered this

 

[The Dude]

That may be true as she has mentioned getting some sort of commitment ring, this whole thing may be a ploy to do just that, I have considered this

Damn Bro... she's how old and wanting a Promise Ring??? AND she is trying to withhold sex until she is married... at times... when it suits her.... RUN BRO... RUN

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[KletoReese]

I was raised in the church and also taught that you don't have premarital sex (oops, lol) so I understand where she's coming from and would personally support her B U T she can't go back and forth like that. That's not fair to you or your relationship. She needs to decide if she going to continue having sex or wait till marriage (or whatever her belief is) and stick to it. She can't go one way or the other when it's convenient for her. I don't think that's what God intended, lol... Maybe have a talk with her. Tell her you'll support whatever decision she makes (if you actually do), but make it clear that she needs to make a decision and follow through. If you're not happy being in a sexless relationship then end things while still being supportive. Might as well end things on a positive note. If she continues to be wishy-washy even after your talk with her then I would personally break up with her. If she's wishy-washy like this then who knows how she'll be with other big decisions to come later in life.

Spot on Silk!

 

[KletoReese]

Damn man.... I've been with Silk for like 7 years and I don't know how I made it through some of the crazy shit girls do. Guys think you have to accept the crazy shit to be with a girl that enjoys sex and is a freak... that's just not true. I understand some guys need to be the rock in a relationship and I think I fulfill that role sometimes, but for me a relationship is a partnership and I need my equal.
Just like all things in life it isn't the easiest thing to do, but the results are so worth it.

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I understand some guys need to be the rock in a relationship and I think I fulfill that role sometimes, but for me a relationship is a partnership and I need my equal. - Amen!

 

[KletoReese]

Whoa Bro! A Promise Ring...Now? It's best you support her decision to be celibate but not on your time and call this off...QUICK! The long term prospect of this spells DISASTER!

 

[Minima]

Next thing you know she's gonna tell you god got her pregnant cuz she hasnt been fucking you. and your both having the next son of god.

 

[The Survivor]

Shes steadfast in her refusing to have sex and continues to post far right radical religious stuff on her FB.....not to mention going to a radical church....I already told her what I thought, and it got heated. Now I'm nice as pie to her, probaly messing w/her mind as she cant figure me out.....but I agree w/everyone else, time to say see ya later seniorita!!

My test will be down the road when she falls off the no sex wagon and starts hinting to me she wants sex, arghhhh. its bound to happen!!

 

[Get_Swole]

lol good for you bro, I would say the same that's been said, promise ring, maybe if you were both sophomores in highschool still. Give her your letter jacket too lol. Find you another hot piece of ass you will be over it soon.

 

[Minima]

lol good for you bro, I would say the same that's been said, promise ring, maybe if you were both sophomores in highschool still. Give her your letter jacket too lol. Find you another hot piece of ass you will be over it soon.

Nah bro he's just gotta fuck a fat chick they'll do all the work and actually be grateful. Trust me those chubbers try way harder bro...