drtbear1967

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Ok, so I have had enough of the body shaming that has been going on. We as a community must stand up for those that are trying, those that may not the size 1 with no bodyfat and big boobs.

I watched the Super Bowl and even though I am not a huge fan of Lady Ga Ga, she put on a great show. But as soon as her show was over, someone was body shaming her due to a little belly. OMG, you have to be kidding me.

If people are working out and trying to get into better shape or improve their health we should do anything to help them. But shaming people due to the way that they look is beyond rude. You know there are people out there that think a muscled up body is gross. So to each his own, help those that you can help and like your were taught when you were little…. If you cannot say anything nice don’t say anything at all……..just STFU.

 
I thought she looked great. I am also not a fan but I appreciate her more after not making the halftime show about her personal politics.
 
I saw the fat around her waist and said nothing to any one about it. I for me personally if I looked like she did, I would have choosen not to wear an outfit that exccentuate this body aspect, but that is just me.

I personally don't like taking my shirt off in publice when I am over 10% BF, but that is my choice. Then again there is the other side of the coin when we have plus 20 size women wearing bikini's. At a certain point you either care or you don't, and if you don't care that means you don't care!!!!!!So if someone says a nasty remark and you get offended.....................guess what dumb ass...........you care!!

Don't wear the outfit or diet!!
 
I think it all comes down to a general lack of respect. I want to be treated a certain way, therefore I treat people the way I want to be treated. You try and be disrespect full, you will not like what is coming your way.
 
my wife has some belly fat left from having kids. has had trouble getting rid of it, but it doesn't matter to me, because she is still pretty. i see women all the time that have a bit of fat and still look very fine to me.
don't worry fellas, the older you get, the wider the range of women that will appeal to you.
i'm not a ga ga fan either.
what turns me off faster than anything is the mouth on some people. like dtrbear wrote, be nice.
 
But what about when it goes the other way...I posted in a thread awhile ago about a girl at my gym that is a division 1 college volleyball player, that gets looks at like she is a piece of trash because she wore a set of spandex shorts and a t-shirt with the school championship written on it....she wasn't a show off she was a well built athlete that was stared and looked at badly by the new out of shape people in the gym...

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most of the time what I see is people out of shape or who want to be fit and muscular but don't put in anytime to do so get some hatred and attitude to the people that look good and are in good shape, they just get extremely jelious and try to bring those people down, at least that's what ive been seeing through the years where I live
 
I of all people know body shaming I was so big the gym intimidated me...it took me losing 110lbs and looking sickly before I had the nerve to walk in.. still had a belly and my upper body looked like a 6 th grade boy....but it was time...now I've grown a bit and can't live without going....here is a pic of the total process.
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And yes that's a playboy bunny tattoo,,,one of those drunk nights in mexico when I was 18

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big man, I think it is time to get a cover up on that rabbit and rock and chest piece to honor the warrior that you have become. Keep killing it and support everyone that is out their putting in an effort.
 
big man, I think it is time to get a cover up on that rabbit and rock and chest piece to honor the warrior that you have become. Keep killing it and support everyone that is out their putting in an effort.
My gf wants me to cover it up she hates it but I don't know with what.....it used to be an 8x12 but now I've lost weight it's about a 4x6 lol

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Ok, so I have had enough of the body shaming that has been going on. We as a community must stand up for those that are trying, those that may not the size 1 with no bodyfat and big boobs.

I watched the Super Bowl and even though I am not a huge fan of Lady Ga Ga, she put on a great show. But as soon as her show was over, someone was body shaming her due to a little belly. OMG, you have to be kidding me.

If people are working out and trying to get into better shape or improve their health we should do anything to help them. But shaming people due to the way that they look is beyond rude. You know there are people out there that think a muscled up body is gross. So to each his own, help those that you can help and like your were taught when you were little…. If you cannot say anything nice don’t say anything at all……..just STFU.


I saw that too, and I couldn't believe it. All this body shaming has to stop.
 
I of all people know body shaming I was so big the gym intimidated me...it took me losing 110lbs and looking sickly before I had the nerve to walk in.. still had a belly and my upper body looked like a 6 th grade boy....but it was time...now I've grown a bit and can't live without going....here is a pic of the total process.
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Damn Bro, thats impressive as hell! I showed yr pics to a few my members as I'm at the gyms front desk and they couldnt believe it, congrats!! Nice to see somebody bustin thier ass in the gym.....
 
It's been a 2 and half year thing...when I look at the extra skin on my stomach it makes me realize I have to stay in the gym because I'm not gonna be the person on the far left anymore ever again

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What a great transformation you have achieved PF83, I am 65 yo man and can appreciate the amount of determination effort, will power and visualization you would have had to put into the project, cheers and keep up the good work, the mind certainly is a powerful instrument :gold:
 
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