What do men get out of looking at other women?

[sw8cheeks67]

What is it that men get out of looking/gazing at beautiful women, nude or otherwise?

I can't imagine a wife feeling honored or edified as their husband stares at fitter, prettier and more provocative women on the internet or in person.

However, I have read that men actually get a chemical “high” in their brain when they see an attractive woman and that is why they are so drawn to look at other women even when they are in love with another. I’m wondering, from your perspective, what you think it is.

Are men sexually “turned on” when they see a beautiful woman naked and automatically fantasize about having sex with her or is it more of just plain old admiration for the beautiful female form with no arousal? And, if it is sexual arousal, does that happen only in seeing a naked woman (internet, magazine, strip joint, porn) or does that happen when you see a beautiful clothed woman as well? Also, does this expectation then create sexual issues between the man and his spouse as she doesn't live up to these images?

 

[PezBolic]

What is it that men get out of looking/gazing at beautiful women, nude or otherwise?

I can't imagine a wife feeling honored or edified as their husband stares at fitter, prettier and more provocative women on the internet or in person.

However, I have read that men actually get a chemical “high” in their brain when they see an attractive woman and that is why they are so drawn to look at other women even when they are in love with another. I’m wondering, from your perspective, what you think it is.

Are men sexually “turned on” when they see a beautiful woman naked and automatically fantasize about having sex with her or is it more of just plain old admiration for the beautiful female form with no arousal? And, if it is sexual arousal, does that happen only in seeing a naked woman (internet, magazine, strip joint, porn) or does that happen when you see a beautiful clothed woman as well? Also, does this expectation then create sexual issues between the man and his spouse as she doesn't live up to these images?

Depends on the guy and what stage of life. I'm 46 and while still visual it's more of a type to catch me turning my head (for me it's usually Latinas , Persians, or Lebanese women with dark hair, great eyes and curvy). If I have a GF it's because I am very into them and the girl who's hotsy totsy with the camel toe thong makes me think 'Attention Seeker' but a seeing a pretty lady might just mean a glance or smile. Arousal: I'm 46 and sexual attraction is a lot more tactile and affection driven. If that's missing, 'he' doesn't want to play long.So, the superficiality is gone but the need for the 'high' (DOPAMINE) is still there. I like girls who ARE nice, not just 'nice girls' . I've been around (too much for my taste) so I know titty bars are a waste of cash and porn is just filler until you have the real thing.
Getting back to an earlier point you made, I know things can get routine and life gets in the way but IMO why things go stale is the lack of sexual tension. Keep that and mindset and I think porn is very low on the 'to do' list. The worst thing is insecurity and indifference towards each other.

 

[THE44]

I'm 46 as well and although I'm enhanced , I've always exercised and lifted weights. We owe it to ourselves and our significant others/wives to stay physically attractive. You weren't fat when I met you is a factor.
I'm very much into women with similar interests as me, bodybuilding, lifting and honesty in relationships. I still appreciate women's bodies and yoga pants, BUT a mental bond, emotional bond has to exist. You have to have honesty, acceptance and maturity to hold water with me... and muscle (my girls IFBB pro bodybuilder who got her pro card in 2002. She's a bad ass still.


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[Durro]

This is because women are from Venus and men are from Mars.
Men are visually stimulated and woman are stimulated with affection and are more emotional.
Woman are beautiful in all shapes, sizes, colors.
Back in my day the only porn we got was finding a magazine somewhere along the riverbank, alleys or ditches. Now for these young kids it's instantly in there hands anywhere with phones, tablets and computers.


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[CH3NO2]

Because Testosterone, thats why. Men will always look. Its in our nature. Just the truth.

 

[Durro]

Because Testosterone, thats why. Men will always look. Its in our nature. Just the truth.

Yes survival. To find young healthy women to breed our offspring with.
Same with women. A big strong man will protect and provide food etc. Better chance of surviving.
But in these modern times it's money.


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[BigZ]

Well, to see a beautiful woman, we're hard-wired to appreciate the form and proportion. (I mean, come on, we may be married, but we're not dead.) Just seeing a beautiful woman is really just a physical reaction. That isn't the same as the attraction you feel towards your mate because there's much more involved there.

 

[beachbody]

I'm 46 as well and although I'm enhanced , I've always exercised and lifted weights. We owe it to ourselves and our significant others/wives to stay physically attractive. You weren't fat when I met you is a factor.
I'm very much into women with similar interests as me, bodybuilding, lifting and honesty in relationships. I still appreciate women's bodies and yoga pants, BUT a mental bond, emotional bond has to exist. You have to have honesty, acceptance and maturity to hold water with me... and muscle (my girls IFBB pro bodybuilder who got her pro card in 2002. She's a bad ass still.

What do you mean when you say "although I'm enhanced"?

 

[Presser]

What is it that men get out of looking/gazing at beautiful women, nude or otherwise?

I can't imagine a wife feeling honored or edified as their husband stares at fitter, prettier and more provocative women on the internet or in person.

However, I have read that men actually get a chemical “high” in their brain when they see an attractive woman and that is why they are so drawn to look at other women even when they are in love with another. I’m wondering, from your perspective, what you think it is.

Are men sexually “turned on” when they see a beautiful woman naked and automatically fantasize about having sex with her or is it more of just plain old admiration for the beautiful female form with no arousal? And, if it is sexual arousal, does that happen only in seeing a naked woman (internet, magazine, strip joint, porn) or does that happen when you see a beautiful clothed woman as well? Also, does this expectation then create sexual issues between the man and his spouse as she doesn't live up to these images?

Well, Ive been married and faithful to my wife for 18 years, Yes 10000% Faithful, and No she doesn’t read this site or come here anymore, so I aint just saying that!

So from a guy like me , who hasn’t had pussy since pussy had him, well I get flat out aroused at naked women, and yes I imagine what it would be like to fuck them. Yes Its like a chemical signal high, you are 100% correct!

And Yes clothed beautiful women I see at the mall, or in stores , checking out in the grocery store, yes, I still look them up and down, imagine what it would be like to fuck them.

I also unconsciously look long enough to retain that mental image in my mind for a later date with the spank monster (my hand)!

I honestly have no control over whether or not I see a beautiful women and take a second glance, or imagine sex with them! Its in my DNA I suppose!

The only thing that creates sexual issues with my wife, is her not having sex with me lmao! At least not nearly as much as I would like! Im good for visiting the spank monster 1-2 times daily, (NO BULLSHIT AS GOD AS MY WITNESS) and since I have not a fucking clue when my wife is gonna throw some ass my way, sometimes it’ll be after a 2 spank day, and then of course she will want some FINALLY, and such as my luck, my cock aint exactly serving search warrants if you know what I mean, lmao

So then the issue becomes, do I tell her I “came” twice already today , and try explaining like some erectile dysfuntionate fucker this is the reason I wasnt so hard. And here is the real kicker, even though I know my shit aint going to be on point, im still horny as a mother fucker, and still want to get off! Sometimes I honest to GOD feel like somehting is wrong with me!

For some reason though, I can’t cheat on my wife, and I honest to GOD want to sometimes, at least I think I do lol, or think I would, but come that time, I pussy out every time (pun intended)

as for your Live up to expectations question, Nah, I never felt like that, and my wife has changed tremendously, she was fitness, and physique competitor as well as competed in some bodybuilding shows, banging ass body, and fast forward 18 years, and 4 year old twins, (boy and girl), well my wife hasn’t exactly bounced back into shape, and I am still turned on as ever by her, and she gets me going regardless of how many hot chciks I seen today, or how many tube8.org videos I watched in the office that day, lmao. Yeah had to give a shout out to my crew of biatches on tube8.org , pornhub, and shegods.com (bitches be banging , say what) lmao!!!


So, in closing, if these are your only, or at least main relationship type problems, then you have it made, and that goes for both sides, male and female, regardless of who is on which end of this scenario.


At the end of the day, all I can say for sure as a man, is that all we want from the women we love is reassurance and adoration. Nothing more, nothing less!

 

[Presser]

At the end of the day, all I can say for sure as a man, is that all we want from the women we love is reassurance and adoration. Nothing more, nothing less!

Oh, and maybe fake your orgasms a little louder and better! Ok, I thinks that all! lol

 

[Masher59]

When you've been hitting the same watering hole for a while the lure of the strange becomes strong. So what if you get amped up looking at other women then fuck the shit out of yours. It's a win win.

Presser I do the same thing with those mental snapshots for the spank bank later on lmfao!!!

 

[The Survivor]

Back when I was in mid 20's. my GF then was arguably the best looking woman(not my words) in this hick city of 30K, not sure that was true but she was in top 10. The like some others said, I got roving eyes, got tired of filet mignon and went for lobster. The woman I left her for was very attractive, she was big breasted where as the other one was Barbie doll figure, tall and slender. Of course as fate would have it, when I dumped GF number one to get with GF number 2, it didn't work out at all.

Us men no doubt think with our dicks, really we get hard just looking at a good looking woman. As a confirmed bachelor at age 57, I have seem more battles than a seasoned war hero. It took me a long time to come to realization that the 24 yr olds don't look at me anymore, they used to throw their panties at me, now call me Sir. i believe even younger ones may like (as in friendly way) a older man like me, appreciate the body but aren't remotely interested. In fact, if a 21 yr wanted to **** me, I'd have a loaded gun ready as I'd be convinced she was 100% nuts.

So yes we look because if yr younger, you wanna get in their pants OR when yr older (like me) you just dream of the good ol days

 

[Masher59]

LMAO Survivor, I've been called Sir a few times at the gym and I was like fuuuck! Damn I'm old or they are waaay too young.

 

[The Survivor]

LMAO Survivor, I've been called Sir a few times at the gym and I was like fuuuck! Damn I'm old or they are waaay too young.

fuucckk! Noooooo!

 

[The Survivor]

Not to digress but at my age some of my married friends like to fuck with me and say Survivor yr in yr 50's, not married you must be gay! LOL....I just laugh and say I'm not gay but I'm happy

 

[THE44]

I'm 46 as well and although I'm enhanced , I've always exercised and lifted weights. We owe it to ourselves and our significant others/wives to stay physically attractive. You weren't fat when I met you is a factor.
I'm very much into women with similar interests as me, bodybuilding, lifting and honesty in relationships. I still appreciate women's bodies and yoga pants, BUT a mental bond, emotional bond has to exist. You have to have honesty, acceptance and maturity to hold water with me... and muscle (my girls IFBB pro bodybuilder who got her pro card in 2002. She's a bad ass still.

What do you mean when you say "although I'm enhanced"?

I have a boob job.... lmao. Chemically enhanced of course. Gear... the original anti-dad bod.


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[Presser]

Not to digress but at my age some of my married friends like to fuck with me and say Survivor yr in yr 50's, not married you must be gay! LOL....I just laugh and say I'm not gay but I'm happy

....And been banging your wife as long as we’ve been friends!

 

[sw8cheeks67]

Thanks for the perspectives guys!!

 

[pgb]

at 59 y/o, i still find attractive women a turn on, which is a considerable variety of. i love looking at them and can't get enough. i still look at my wife with lust as well. sometimes to the point i get aroused looking at her clothed. it's in our makeup as men and we're programmed this way. there are times i would like to stray as well, but the allure is smashed quite quickly, due to at my age i want the connection mentally as well. as boys/ young men we want sex and a lot of it, without really having much idea about relationship. now that i'm older, i really want to connect and still want that peach just as much, which is pretty much all the time. guy's got to sleep once in awhile, lol.

 

[pgb]

i also believe women get something out of looking at men. in this day and age, women do so almost as much as men. scientifically, women are much more likely to go out on men, then men go out on women, especially during ovulation. women may even seek out several men during that time. that was observed from a study done in england several years ago. so there is more truth to the saying you may be the milkman's kid than we thought.
men and women are scientifically different, hormonally, chromosomes, mentally, as well as physically. hopefully, you find the right one, so that your differences are balanced out with one another and you become one.
don't get me wrong though, there are exceptions out there and of course no one is a book. meaning there are as many variations of our makeup of what make people different as there are people.