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Ok guys plain and simple..there's this girl that I love (my fiance) we're getting married in a year or two...and umm her family doesn't like me very much because of different religion, especially her mom..her mom is not happy seeing her daughter being with me..so its really messed up...her dad is kinda cool with everything but her mom bitches at her all the time. She is an orthodox, and I'm muslim..don't think that Im some middle eastern dude hahah hell no my pops are from Europe and came long time ago here in the US but it happens that I'm muslim..so..now we are having some talks with her mom..I myself have a mom and a dad...and the only way she's not gonna break hers family hearts is if I change my religion being a Catholic..so I agreed that Im gonna change my religion on Catholic..side..it takes alot of guys to do that and courage but its all fine...then..I know my parents will be pissed off...I'm sure I'll lose their respect or who knows maybe I can say goodbye to them..but we really love eachother..and we want to be together for the rest of our lives..is just this religion issue...that we have here..althrough I don't think it matters as long as someone loves eachother like we do. So, I told her I'll do it..but I'll keep it a secret until we get married because I'm still living in my parents house, I dont want any problems coming as for right now. Later, we will live on our own and no families will interfear....I told her I'll do anything no matter what just to save this block of love that we have...even if I have to change my religion (being a catholic). So I need some input on all this..I really don't know who to ask about all this. Is it safe, how's it done, have anyone else done this before...and so on...thanks alot....wishing you all the best in upcoming NEW YEAR 2003.. Good bless you all....