92StangMan
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I have a question...
This is my first actual relationship in that I love my girlfriend, but she is going through a rough time right now with her mom and step-dad getting a divorce and they're going to have to move. This puts a lot of pressure on her and I don't really mention it that much, but we never have sex. It seems like she's upset about something and I can understand, but here's my question:
When I am with her, that's the only person that I want to be around, but when I'm not around her, usually I am online or at work when we're not together, I know I can get with a few girls. Like I said, we NEVER have sex and it pisses me off but I sometimes actually think about getting with another girl just to keep my sanity. I don't think I ever will but is this wrong with me even thinking about it? This isn't the usual, "Damn, I'd like to fuck her" and go on. It's more like, "Damn, I want to fuck that (then my conscience comes in at the last minute to stop me)."
Is it okay to sometimes talk to another girl about sex and even come close to doing it, but stoping yourself? I'm trying hard to not get in these positions but sometimes I cannot help it.
I feel like a real asshole and just wanting to get some opinions from people who have been there.
Thanks!
This is my first actual relationship in that I love my girlfriend, but she is going through a rough time right now with her mom and step-dad getting a divorce and they're going to have to move. This puts a lot of pressure on her and I don't really mention it that much, but we never have sex. It seems like she's upset about something and I can understand, but here's my question:
When I am with her, that's the only person that I want to be around, but when I'm not around her, usually I am online or at work when we're not together, I know I can get with a few girls. Like I said, we NEVER have sex and it pisses me off but I sometimes actually think about getting with another girl just to keep my sanity. I don't think I ever will but is this wrong with me even thinking about it? This isn't the usual, "Damn, I'd like to fuck her" and go on. It's more like, "Damn, I want to fuck that (then my conscience comes in at the last minute to stop me)."
Is it okay to sometimes talk to another girl about sex and even come close to doing it, but stoping yourself? I'm trying hard to not get in these positions but sometimes I cannot help it.
I feel like a real asshole and just wanting to get some opinions from people who have been there.
Thanks!