your friends being A holoes during a cutter

ok, so I have been cutting for alomost 3 months now. looking very shredded and very happy with my results so far. but now every BBQ or dinner out at a restaurant with my friends is turning into hell for me. First of all its amazing how those people that want you to fail are usually the closest to you. All of the sudden every mother fucker is a nutrion expert. I keek hearing "Just have a little bit its not gonna hurt you." How the fuck do they know that? and how much is just a little bit if its being offered every fucking minute. I have gotten so pissed off that I have just walked away and gotten into my car and left. Now the going out to dinner part is even worse because I can't go into a restaurant with a protein shake like I can at a BBQ. Plus I smell all the food in there which is even worst. I only get a cheat meal Sundays for lunch. So I can't cheat any other day of the week. The only way to stop this is to not hang out with any of my friends but I don't wanna be a loner either. How do you guys deal with this? I am so pist off all the time as it is anyway because I can't eat the things I want and the last thing I need is some cock sucker who doesn't even work out telling me that he knows having just one burger is not gonna do anything. :curse:

tell them to fuck off and then beat one of them up...that seems to work well..after i snap no one tends to bother me LOL

ip, looking for a little more of a constructive and non cronfrentational approach to this you violent mofo!

Make something up, tell them your doc said it was for your health for you to cut weight. Tell them you already ate, tell them you are anorexic (thats what i say). make a joke of it and dont let it get to you bro, dieting alone is hard enough, try not to let the other stuff get to ya. they probably just like ot rile you up, act like it dosent bother you and theyll porbably stop

When I i get agree i tend to go blank, lol.

If they r your friends they will understand...if not fuckem bro thats all

It doesnt matter whether there your friends or not, ppl dont understand what we do. Hell, ask anyone who knows what i eat i am always strict and i always eat clean. My freinds outside of my lifting world have no idea why i do it and when i try to explain it to them they dont even really pay attention. They dont understand the level of dedication it takes and thats fine. But i'm like IP once you go off on them, they usually figure out that your not going to budge and they can just deal with it or leave.

reach over and pinch their belly fat and then tell them that the "little bit" of bbq is what did that! I got a freind like this and he carries around a little wieght well he started his shit once and I lifted up his shirt in public and thats stopped that.

Actually, IP has a good point. Maybe you don't have to literally beat them up, but you do have to let them know in uncertain terms that they can't do this to you--sometimes that means a little verbal 'beating up.' If you don't say anything, they will keep doing it. If you make sure they know you get really pissed off when they do it and that you are serious about your goals, they will leave you alone on the matter.

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reach over and pinch their belly fat and then tell them that the "little bit" of bbq is what did that! I got a freind like this and he carries around a little wieght well he started his shit once and I lifted up his shirt in public and thats stopped that.

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I did the same exact thing to a friend of mine and the rest all realized they didn't want to be next!

I've also told them I'm hypoglycemic and have to watch what I eat and when I can eat to keep from having an episode. (An episode which may involve me using secret ninja moves I've learned from the government to kick their asses...)

Seioursly though, I agree with the other guys about this one, if you make them realize this is serious to you and it's not a game they should respect that.

i know.....im 35 and dont drink.........my homies try making me drink every weekend for the past 15 years

I just had a wendy's triple burger.... w/ super combo. Thats how I deal with it.

new topic, How do you deal with Normalsucks when HE is being an Ahole? you bastard I am so hungry right now, but Sunday I get my cheat meal and I am going to put a hurt on McDanalds and Rustys Pizza!

Strangely enough, my friends have a shit load of respect for me now because of how much weight I have lost. In fact, i'm now helping my best friend out with his diet/workout plan. Makes me feel pretty damn good about myself :dj:

On a serious note, when you guys have a cheat meal is there such thing as going over board with it? Or can you eat all you can stuff during that meal I figure if you limit yourself then it really is not a cheatmeal or is it?? I can eat 2 cheese burgers small fries and a medium thin crust 4 topping pizza in one sitting.

I'd say there is such thing as going overboard, but it probably has to be pretty extreme. I can also polish off that much at once. Everyone looks at me like, "man, are you hungry or something?" LOL!

i am really bad with my cheat meals..i can eat a whole pizza hut stuft crust pizza,some bread sticks,chicken wings,then haev a like 2 pints of ice cream..i hold so much damn water after that its really uncomfortable LOL

ELMO- LOL!!

I know, I don’t belong here… I have no self-discipline. Lets just say you’ll never see me on a stage.

I just sharted that burger... if it makes you fell any better.

As I diet longer and longer I start to get disgusted with shitty food. Its almost to the point where I want to puck at the idea of a triple cheese fast food piece of shit (with that water shit dripping out, and the punk boy back there cooking it, with his pissin hand). Don't get me wrong I just had 2 hambergers here this evening but they were home cooked right and lean angus. I ate some pizza the other day and it too tasted like shit as I was looking for the protein in it and thinking theres nothing in it to help me in anyway. This wasn't me a couple of months ago but I'm really starting to enjoy chicken salads over pizza. When I see a fat fu*k standing in checkout with a pop and chips (zits everywhere) I just want to slap the retard. Not everyone needs to be lean but why try and get monster fat. Surely I'm not the onlyone here that is developing taste buds for only quality food. Peace

yah tonight was my cheat night... i probably had a whole mixing bowl of icecream.... like 3-4 large scoops.... but then again I havn't cheated in about a week and a half so I kinda needed it. OMFG best ice cream ive ever had in my lifetime I had it @ around 8 pm tho so at least it wasnt just b4 I went to bed or something.