girls and their games

alright, ive been seeing this girl for a couple of months now and i seem to be getting stressed out alot lately. she is one of those girls that are damn near impossible to develop something with. she has never done drugs and rairly drinks and is all about having a good life, body, job and whatever. shes a really good girl. i though she would be too damn good for me but we actually put a little something together. i have grown pretty close to her but it seems that its not really mutuial. there will be days where its awesome and i feel really close, then theres days where i feel like she has lost intrest in me. i would love to have a relationship with this girl but am not sure if she feels the same way. we have been talkin for at least 2-3 months. weve both seen eachother naked. the other day she went to her friends foir dinner and she asked what was going on with her and i. i asked her what she said and she couldnt give me an answer. she said" well what do you want me to say" what the hell is that. i see her as my girl but i guess she doesnt feel the same way. it seems like were not hangin out as much. she is the type of person who would tell me if she didnt want to hang out. her b-day is the 30th of this month so im going to take her to mohegan sun on saturday the 5th.
any ladies have any idea what might be going on here. any of the bros with any sugestions would be great.

Ancient secret

Be desireless........they can smell it from a mile away.
Be great..............show supiriority to other men she could be after.
Be gone...............the less accesable you are to her, the harder she will have to persue you(its human nature to want what we cant have).

-The Tao Of Steve-

i know that she isnt seeing someone else. i think its just what you said. she doesnt know what she wants. i figured if i said weve seen eachother naked you would use your own judgment on that one. before me she hasnt been or slept with anyone in 2 years. its not like she is ugly. shes drop dead gorgous. it was hard enough for me to get this close to her. its just weird cause its different every day. one day she will be all over me, like when were out she kisses me and just touches me. its nice. then ill talk to her on the phone and shes completly different.
i dont know what the fu@k to think

im gettin your drift. thanx for the advice. i dont know why but its so hard for me to just not think about her. im never like this towards a girl. ussually i could give to shits. i dont know what the hell is goin on with me. i think she implanted somethink in my brain when i was sleeping or something. im constantly trying to just do my thing and let her slip my mind but i end up hangin around waiting for her to call me just to tell me that she has to go to bed earlt to get up at 5 or shes gotta watch her sisters kids. what the F@CK

Be Steve.

Hey man, just do what comes natural. That's all you can. You don't need a course of action. Whats ever done is done. She knows you by now so to change up your act will not work. Go with the flow, don't get too attached. If it works out good for you, if it does not don't get all depressed. I think guys don't admit it but sometimes they try too hard to work something. She knows the answer-she just has not told you yet.

i guess your right. everything will work itself out. whatever is ment to happen is going to happen right

Kinda on what glen said.....don't let it affect your life routine.

I pretty busy, and when I would start talking to a new girl, I stay on my routine. If I see myself deviating from this routine.....there is a red flag.

If they can't naturally fit into my already hectic routine.....then I don't need them.

I take it she's kinda young and so are you?......so don't read too much into it.

Oh, and you say she's like 2 different people sometimes.......MESSAGE (schizo) j/k......maybe

get rid of her, there are a hundred more just like her and a thousand more better. It's too built up she has already figured that she can manipulate you so she will-not that it makes her a bad person it's just in a girls nature. Your talking about 1 billion years of evolution in her subconcious mind, she's playing games but doesn't even know it.

Get rid of her, once a girl looses interest in you you have to work 10x harder to get it back. Not worth it :evil:

shes actually a year older than me. i was soposed to call her in the mornin but i took b2s's advice and didnt call her and she ended up calling me later. i didnt really say much. im not going to ask her to do anything im going to let her do it. if she dont ask we wont hang out

I vote for ignoring her. Sounds like your head is already fucked. Thats the worst place to be. A few days of ignoring her will fix you, and her. Sounds like she isnt that into you, so crank the knife and turn up the heat by making yourself scarce. She wants a challenge and if you havent presented that then your screwed. Not to say it cant be fixed.


And who cares if she is seeing someone else. That has no bearing on you. Nothing any other guy does can change how you treat her. If you are seen as a 85 out of 100, another guy cannot make you a 65, however, another guy can be a 90, but you will still be an 85. Never sweat the competition. NEVER get into a pissing contest with another guy. Not that you have, but dont. The only thing that can kill your 85 is you fucking it up yourself so be cool chill and remember theres literally BILLIONS of females, just like mcdonalds hamburgers.

To me she sounds bi-polar man i know what u mean though, i have kinda the same situation i am very close to a girl fuct her a million times tells me she loves me, but i aint her man, wtf is that shit. so i take it 1 day at a time and wherever the f-ing cards fall, let them fall as they will,. she lives far away from me so now i do what i want, and dont feel guilty, fuck it if u r still single u can do what u want. I dont know man i am confused by my own situation still but oh well 1 day at a time 1 girl at a time. if she still plays games. be inaccessible like the others said, dont waist your time on some1 who wont waste their time on u.

where ya been AZ1? aint seen ya around.

Like the others have said a girl is not worth the trouble if she acts like that. Millions of fish in the sea. The girl wont change and you'll end up feeling a lot more hurt if you invest too much more time into it. Trust me from my own personal experience.

Don't kiss her ass anymore and be hard to find for a few days. That is always the test. I know youdon't want to scare her away but we all know chicks(crazy as hell) Ignore some calls, say you got things to do with someone else, see how she reacts. They LOVE the chace so the more you kiss that ass the more she sticks it out there.

every human wants what they cant have so ignore her. bet she comes around.

that was well said Mass Monster and that's the truth too :moon:

yeah i hear you guys butt it just plain sux. its been like a year sence ive had another person in my live before this girl. i dont know what my problem is. its not l;ike im some ugly pimple faced geek. im a great lookin 215lb, 7%bf beast. in my eyes. i think i grew a lil to close. i talked with her for a while last night,. actuaslly we were layin on her bed and i could just feel the distance between us. ussually shes all snugley. she wouldnt even put her arm around me. i asked here what was up and she said she doesnt want to be that close to anyone. she said it was great in the begining. i mean we talked everyday, we were bangin and then all the sudden we are too close. what the fuck. she said that i am perfect for her but she just doesnt want a boyfriend. o for 3 months we were tight and all the sudden...... this chick has got me all fucked up. it sux cause i cant get her out of my mind. these are the things that make me hate my life. i know thats the way life goes but im just so fuckin sick of it. i feel like im going to grow up all by myself. im sorry to bring all of you guys into my problems but it makes me feel better if i just type the way im feeling and someone actually reads it. im just fuckin sick of everything.....

I'm telling you from my point and it will work. As hard as it is for you bro........STAY AWAY....jusr for a few days.... Try to but the thoughts you have in a different place. I have been where you are at ans have fucked things up. Have lost lots of great looking women becuase I was too agressive. Lay back and let the fish come to the hook. Bro it is a big lake. If she real says that you aree perfect for her she will come around. Bro you said yourself your a goodlooking kid so don't worry till you have to. Do a 360 on her. Totally change your tune. Be like you are right I don't need a girlfriend either right now. Or just say you have other things to do. You deserve better if you have to kiss too much ass. I don't care how fucken hot this chick is. Your brain will be fucked up for life. TRUST ME!!!! you play hard to get for a week and se what happens. DO NOT call her. They hate to me ignored. I haved been to hell and back with chicks so you don't want to end up with a restraining order on you or you do something stupid. Hope this helps.

dude for real listen to MM he's right-I know it sucks I've been there too...to the point (OH GOD DARE I SAY IT) that I was crying my little brown baby eyes out. For real (DRUM ROLL) here it is, you are thinking of this chick all the time right? go out and fuck 12 other chicks and if you still feel the same way about her then maybe you're on to something if not then it was all you bullshitting yourself AND if you can't go out and fuck 12 other chicks right off the bat then that's were the real problem is-you put all your eggs in one basket and tripped
oh yeah and listen to some SLIP KNOT too this helps when your pissed-trust me I've been listening to a lot of it the last few days :angry: