Lookiing for GF/Roids thread.. HELP?

Alright fellas, Ive been dating this chick for a while now, meaning, I dont know how long lol! When we first got together everything was cool, I was half ass honest about my AAS use, I felt that I needed to be, better be honest up front rather than she find out later and it bite you in the ass! So I told her what was up, no big deal, and HEY, she was cool with everything. Now that she has developed stronger feelings for me she is worried about my health and AAS usage, I constantly tell her to not worry, Im fine, "have faith in me, I know what Im doing". But DAMN the past 2 weeks has gotten out of control, every 5 mins its something and my use. I remind her, it doesnt affect our relationship whatsoever! Dont get me wrong, I love how she "cares" about my health, but GET OFF MY BALLS! I get this shit... "have you taken your shot today"?... I say, "nope" and then I get a big over exagerated sigh from her... well shit, if I said yes would it make you feel any better? So now Im looking for an article/thread/SOMETHING that officially explains that we are OK. Im not going to die, you have nothing to worry about.

Plan 2 is to remind her that my AAS usage was here before her.... and damnit, it will be here AFTER you if you keep this shit up! I love the girl, but we aint married, and this shit has got to stop! Someone has got to know a web page or article or something... MTV Truelife fucked her head all up! Those ass monkeys! Any help?
 
thats a tough one bro. you said you were up front with her when you met so what i would do is ask her why she has a problem now and not before. it sounds like your aas use is more important to you than your relationship is. i would tell her that no matter what happens you are going to do this eather way and if she dosnt like the idea than tell her that you wont talk about it with her, you will keep your shit out of her sight, you wont leave anything around that has to do with that. just keep it all to yourself. if your ass is sore from a shot and she wants to have some fun, suck it up and go for it and dont complain about and inj. tpo her.
thats just what i would prolly do if i was in your situation
 
Southern Comfor said:
Plan 2 is to remind her that my AAS usage was here before her.... and damnit, it will be here AFTER you if you keep this shit up! I love the girl, but we aint married, and this shit has got to stop! QUOTE]


This is the approach Ive always used. If Im just bagging some girl, i dont tell her anything. But my girlfriend knows (it would be too hard to keep from her) and she knows how I work - if you dont like it, hit the road. She is just as replaceable as I am.

I put up with alot of her shit, and dont break up with her because of it.
 
SC, see if you can find that thread that contains a video link to a story on ESPN (I think that was it) that showed steroids were not the evil everyone thinks they are. The video was called realsports.mp4, and it's a little over 340 MB. If you can find the link, download it, and if the link is dead, pm me your mailing address, and I'll burn you the QuickTime movie on CD and send it to you. That should open her eyes.
 
You may already know this, but the reason she probably didn't care so much as the beginning is because she either thought she could change your mind (which is more likely the case) or she hadn't "fallen" for you yet. And now it matters that you stay alive forever.

However, girls must learn men are not people to be molded into what we want. It's your job and the girls job to find a person that will compromise things that mean so much (if it is worth compromising). Some things are just not meant to be compromised if we feel strongly about---such as your aas.

Good Luck!!!!
 
:) my wife dont like, because of the same reasons my health, but she does not give me shit about it, she used to help whit the shots not any more, she says i am on my own when ever i said honey i will need 450$ to buy suppl. i feel bad do.
but i dont drink,smoke, or do drugs that's what i tell her, this is what i love to do, if i ever get sick from suppl. i will stop.
it feel great having your partner by your side not againsted. :)
 
yeah I've had to keep my wife in the dark as well. She's knows I've used years and years ago and she knew about 1 of my IGF-1 cycles because I talked to her about it before hand and I needed to keep it in the fridge. I wish I could share it with her but she just thinks I'm vain.

Now I just keep everything i need in my office in a drawer in my desk with a fake back on it and no one knows a thing about it... every now and then I worry someone is going to knock while I'm loading or shooting but it hasn't happened yet!
 
It's too bad you guys have to hide what you do. Your partners may not be happy with what you do, but they should not make you hide it.

If I didn't appreciate something I would still want to know. If you ever needed a doctors assistance I would want to be able to tell him what you are on. Or if you were hiding you were a demon worshipper...I would want to know so I could leave...and leave fast =)... But that's me!
 
mikeswift said:
yeah I've had to keep my wife in the dark as well. She's knows I've used years and years ago and she knew about 1 of my IGF-1 cycles because I talked to her about it before hand and I needed to keep it in the fridge. I wish I could share it with her but she just thinks I'm vain.

That's what my wife thinks too. Whenever I get any new supps for bodybuilding, she just says that I'm big enough or that I'm so vain. I wish she would just support me in it. It's funny because by her body language, she seems to like my size. I'm sure that if I lost 40 lbs, she would probably tell me she wants me to gain it back.
 
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