Here is a better question or atleast one im interested in knowing about, for those of you married ingaged or serious, that have done this and brought in a 3rd person (girl) did it change the relationship between ur signifigant other and urself, im talking a one time deal and you didnt and never will see the 3rd party again, and have no chance to see the 3rd party again, was it worth it, did it hurt the relationship or did it spice it up,
My wife and i are very close best friends, fitness enthusiasts, and freaks would best describe us but only together never had 3rd person but always kid about it, stipulations hypotheticly speaking would be neither of us could possibly ever see the other person again or have no chance of running into them so jealousy wouldnt be in the equation down thew road, i just cant see nor my wife how that could go wrong so long as our guidelines were met and kept, but still we are hesitant and still just talking bullshit about it ya know, going on 7 years together, married almost 3 years now, and we moved in together after a couple weeks knowing one another, and not a move of convenience where either of us had our own place already and the other just moved in, after only a couple weeks we went out and bought a place together, so were pretty bonded and have our share of relationship problems like normal people, but i was just curious about this
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My wife and i are very close best friends, fitness enthusiasts, and freaks would best describe us but only together never had 3rd person but always kid about it, stipulations hypotheticly speaking would be neither of us could possibly ever see the other person again or have no chance of running into them so jealousy wouldnt be in the equation down thew road, i just cant see nor my wife how that could go wrong so long as our guidelines were met and kept, but still we are hesitant and still just talking bullshit about it ya know, going on 7 years together, married almost 3 years now, and we moved in together after a couple weeks knowing one another, and not a move of convenience where either of us had our own place already and the other just moved in, after only a couple weeks we went out and bought a place together, so were pretty bonded and have our share of relationship problems like normal people, but i was just curious about this
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