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saudades
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Okay, here's a question for you all:
How has your wife/significant other reacted to your growing muscles? Does it repulse them after a certain point? Do they love it and want more?
I need some advice because my wife has begun to express dislike for my size. If anyone here has watched the show "Sell This House" on TLC, there is an interior designer named Roger Hazard, and he is one big guy though he also has a big gut to go along with it. My wife has started to compare me with him saying my arms are starting to look like his though I am in no way close to his size (I'm not really a big guy. My arms are just pushing 18 inches--Roger has to have at least 21 or more). Perhaps it's just my shape that reminds her. Anyway, she does not want me to get any bigger than I am now (205 lbs). I'm hoping to get to at least 215-220 in the next 10 weeks. That's a significant difference in terms of size. I love her and don't want to lose her, but I thought I had made it clear that I was going to train for this sort of goal when we got married just over seven years ago. What would you do in this case?
How has your wife/significant other reacted to your growing muscles? Does it repulse them after a certain point? Do they love it and want more?
I need some advice because my wife has begun to express dislike for my size. If anyone here has watched the show "Sell This House" on TLC, there is an interior designer named Roger Hazard, and he is one big guy though he also has a big gut to go along with it. My wife has started to compare me with him saying my arms are starting to look like his though I am in no way close to his size (I'm not really a big guy. My arms are just pushing 18 inches--Roger has to have at least 21 or more). Perhaps it's just my shape that reminds her. Anyway, she does not want me to get any bigger than I am now (205 lbs). I'm hoping to get to at least 215-220 in the next 10 weeks. That's a significant difference in terms of size. I love her and don't want to lose her, but I thought I had made it clear that I was going to train for this sort of goal when we got married just over seven years ago. What would you do in this case?