Would you tell her?

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Get_Swole

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Ok got a pretty good relationship goin been bout 3 months not too long but care about her for sure. Well test and temptation finally got the best of me. Ended up drunk at a work party and made out with 5 chicks there not all being collegues and got a blowjob. What would you guys do tell her and let the relationship end or just let it go? I'm just not used to relationships at all lol. I know what normal would do lol. What you guys think I'm hoping this doesn't happen again but fuck some of this chicks at work throwing themselves at me are smokin hot it's tough :/. Half my friends say there's no ring on my finger so he'll with it I feel guilty but at the same time I'm 24 and it's only been 3 months.
 
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Tough call bro. Yeah you're not married and yeah its only been 3 months, but if you see this relationship going somewhere then I wouldn't do it again and I definitely wouldn't tell her.
 
Long-term relationships rest first and foremost on trust. I think you should come clean. Honesty is where its at bro. If you explain your self just right, and she cares about you too, she may come around.
 
MrMeat said:
Tough call bro. Yeah you're not married and yeah its only been 3 months, but if you see this relationship going somewhere then I wouldn't do it again and I definitely wouldn't tell her.
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X2. totally agree with this guy
 
If the situation was reversed and she got trashed, made out with 5 guys and gave one of them a blowjob, don't you think you would want to know?

Well even if you wouldn't want to know, I think you should tell her. I agree with NAIR on this one.

Have you discussed exclusivity yet, or is it just implied? Also, the fact that you're even asking for an opinion on this shows that you care enough about the relationship. If you think there's a chance for something like this (or more) to happen again, then it really isn't fair to her to be played like a fool. The truth hurts... but at least you will be known as the guy who 'fessed up.

Good luck, dude!
 
every relationship has a "probation" period, and thats where your at right now. If it were at least a year...... actually i'd still say no,lol..... mums the word!!
 
steph said:
If the situation was reversed and she got trashed, made out with 5 guys and gave one of them a blowjob, don't you think you would want to know?

Well even if you wouldn't want to know, I think you should tell her. I agree with NAIR on this one.

Have you discussed exclusivity yet, or is it just implied? Also, the fact that you're even asking for an opinion on this shows that you care enough about the relationship. If you think there's a chance for something like this (or more) to happen again, then it really isn't fair to her to be played like a fool. The truth hurts... but at least you will be known as the guy who 'fessed up.

Good luck, dude!
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actually from a woman's point of view, she will tell ALL her friends, and you will be known as the non-trustworthy scumbag man-whore.
 
I do have a lot of experience with this sort of thing.....Lol!!!

Only thing i have to say is she's not the one. Dont tell her. But, no need to get serious with her either.
 
interesting group of opinions here. Im in a crossroads lol, last night i almost ended it with her just to keep from hurting her but then we had a great night and i pussed out. I think im just gonna forget about it and do my best to keep from straying although test levels are about to go way up and its going to be hard getting hit on daily maybe i should just go back to being fat lmao.
 
no need to end it g. Just have fun. Try to do your best not hurting her in the process.
 
normalsucks said:
no need to end it g. Just have fun. Try to do your best not hurting her in the process.
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thanks for the advice bro, i dont think shes the one but i can see things getting more serious down the road i just have a hard time with commitment and it takes me a long time to get "deep" involved. Hopefully i can stay good.
 
dreww said:
which, in itself, will make half of them wanna bang you.
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More than half.... IF you have already blown her away and she has told her friends that you are amazing in bed.... BUT this won't look good if a real good girl comes around that you want to be serious with whether she knows this prior to getting involved with you or learns it later on. Each road has its repercussions, so keep that in mind. This is also coming from the guy who was cheated on by EVERY girl he was EVER faithful to. None of them were EVER honest or forthcoming. Chances are your girl hasn't been Mother Theresa either.
 
h8tr3d said:
actually from a woman's point of view, she will tell ALL her friends, and you will be known as the non-trustworthy scumbag man-whore.
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In most cases, yes this is true... however I did have one case where I stayed with the person and only told my closest friends (who already approved of the guy and knew how much I cared about him) and while they were hurt that he hurt me, they supported my decision to stay in the relationship because he was honest and truly sorry for his mistake... so as others have mentioned in my infidelity thread, it IS possible to get through stuff like that... but I also believe those cases are more often the exception than the rule.
 
steph said:
In most cases, yes this is true... however I did have one case where I stayed with the person and only told my closest friends (who already approved of the guy and knew how much I cared about him) and while they were hurt that he hurt me, they supported my decision to stay in the relationship because he was honest and truly sorry for his mistake... so as others have mentioned in my infidelity thread, it IS possible to get through stuff like that... but I also believe those cases are more often the exception than the rule.
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your right, there are always exceptions
 
If you tell her, it's over. You haven't been in the relationship long enough for her to want to work through it. A year or two, maybe... but right now, she can cut and run and be over you in a few days. I'd say, shut up and learn to hit the free porn sites more, if you need to, in order to stay good, unless you want to be rid of her.
 
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