fitbabe

im a 4ft 11 90lbs female (pic) who does some modelling. i find that due to my size i am often teased and lifted up when around muscle guys/male friends. It can be embarrasing for me as i have been lifted overhead by bodybuilder types, hoisted on guys shoulders and even spun upside down as a joke by a male friend. I have taken plenty of advice off females friends and women while posting on fitness forums but i am now calling on you muscleheads to tell me why this happens to me esp overhead lift. Guys/male friends say its harmless fun - am i overeacting, what reaction of other women you have lifted/overhead press. Any stories/views to help me understand.

First of all you are so hot that I think the guys picking you up over there heads and swinging you around are so disparate for your attention and don’t know the right way to approach you.
It’s immature, but it is flirting.

It's definitely flirting...... You are a very beautiful girl BTW.

Have you ever tried expressing the way you feel about being picked up..... or do you avoid telling them because you think your over reacting.... You really need to tell them you don't like it, and maybe at the very least they won't do it next time....

These guys are right....flirting. They also may think it impresses you that they can lift you up so high and easily. Guys just seem to go crazy when they see a good looking spinner.

Your a very attractive girl BTW.

These guys are right.....Sorry I can't talk to you. You are way to attractive. My wife wouldn't approve. I'll just stand over here in the corner and drool.

saturn said:

These guys are right.....Sorry I can't talk to you. You are way to attractive. My wife wouldn't approve. I'll just stand over here in the corner and drool.

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LMAO... Nice reply!

They are probably just trying to figure out if they are sore from the day before! Besides If I was lifting you up I would be thinking of the wonderful things I could do to you if I could hoist you up 30 or so times! J/K

nice picture

jake, jake, jake....at ease boy!


In all honesty fb1 these guys hit it on the head, besides jake...LMAO..j/k

You need to let these guys know how you feel, and if it bothers you so much, which it seem it does, then verbally let them have it!

Could be for a couple of reasons:

Trying to impress you.
Trying to impress themselves.

Next time someone gets ready to do that, you can tell them "no, I'm afraid of heights" or "the last guy that did that I puked all over him"....
Very beautiful by the way......