ANOTHER car accident

[The Dude]

On our way home last night some local trailer trash that looked to be blasted on a plethora of narcotics slammed into the truck behind us. This in turn forced them into the back of my truck. Both of the other cars appeared totaled. Then those motherfuckers took off. I walked after them and followed as best I could. The car didn't make it more than a couple blocks and the K9 caught the driver. The other shit bags actually returned when they figured out that the car wasn't going to make it to pick them up. Of course the shit bag didn't have insurance... I went to the hospital via ambulance and had a bunch of tests and pumped full of morphine... perfect timing as I have an appt with my Neuro Surgeon on Monday to discuss ANOTHER surgery to hopefully help with the pain Im in from the first and fix the nerve damage to my right leg. Well now Im more fucked up and my beautiful truck needs a new tailgate...
I swear this shit never fucking ends... Silk has been amazing and more supportive than anything I could have imagined, but Im sick of being fucking useless and always complaining. I haven't even contacted my insurance Co. Im not even getting involved in that shit. I have another Appt with ANOTHER Lawyer on Wed to take car of my auto accident stuff. I now have THREE law firms representing me for various reasons. I swear that Ive been in total limbo not knowing what the fuck is going on for like 18 months now. My employer tried to fire me in November due to my injuries, but then didn't want to give me my Pension! They were going to fire me because Im "disabled", but at the same time said I wasn't "disabled" so they denied my Pension...
I hate society... I just want to live in the woods and be out of all of this garbage
Im going to get one of those Leverage Gyms from Powertec I think. It looks like Hammer Strength style stuff. Ill get a Freemotion cable machine and Maybe a Hammer Incline machine. I can no longer do free weights or balance them so I'll need a decent set up. I hope I do well enough between all these lawsuits to be able to afford to accommodate my injuries. Im just distraught at this point. Im totally overwhelmed

 

[The Dude]

The damage to my Spinal Cord is progressing so quickly that Ill need a cane to walk before Im 40... All this and the City's shit bag attorneys only argument is "Look at how muscular he is, obviously he isn't disabled.." People just disgust me

 

[PUMPchenko]

.... People just disgust me

it is jealousy man, don't expect much compassion.

 

[LEE GASPARI]

Look, I'm not going to go thru all the shit I've been thru, no need for that. I will tell you how grateful I am for what I do have and what I can do. Dude, think positive, be upbeat, and do all the things you enjoy. You have the mindset to overcome any adversity. You will persevere.

 

[The Dude]

Look, I'm not going to go thru all the shit I've been thru, no need for that. I will tell you how grateful I am for what I do have and what I can do. Dude, think positive, be upbeat, and do all the things you enjoy. You have the mindset to overcome any adversity. You will persevere.

I know of your issues and surgery. I think you can understand just needing to get it out once in a while. I'm trying to stay positive, but sometimes it just seems like it keeps piling on. I'm scared shitless about another surgery. The first one worked out as I regained the strength in my right side, but I'm in constant pain now. Now I'm losing the contractile strength in my right leg and I can't walk down stairs like a normal person. I'm not asking for pity or any of that stuff as I know I am truly blessed in so many ways. I just need to get it out. I know after discussing my first surgery I was much more comfortable when I went in for it.i have been working hard on learning to discuss things snd not letting them build up inside

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[IronJulius]

I love ya Dude and since i said that ill add praying for you. Always been good to me and i wish you didnt have to go through this but i know you are strong

 

[Presser]

remind me to never cross the street next you dude! or stand next to you in a lightning storm lol, sorry to hear all this brutha!

 

[The Dude]

remind me to never cross the street next you dude! or stand next to you in a lightning storm lol, sorry to hear all this brutha!

Lol!!! I literally spit my coffee in my computer reading this

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[LEE GASPARI]

I have the utmost respect for you revealing your feelings. I do understand and want you to feel free to express anything you have on your mind. You and I could have one helluva Pity Party, but we both know where we have been and what we've been thru. Stay strong

 

[dorian123]

that sucks man, if it's not one thing it's another

you better get a hold of your insurance company if not they will think you are trying to hide something and drop you-they are such a pain in the ass, but they are more than happy to take your money

 

[The Dude]

that sucks man, if it's not one thing it's another

you better get a hold of your insurance company if not they will think you are trying to hide something and drop you-they are such a pain in the ass, but they are more than happy to take your money

I contacted them today to file the claim, but refused to give a recorded statement. I meet with my attorney for this on Wed.

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[The Dude]

I have the utmost respect for you revealing your feelings. I do understand and want you to feel free to express anything you have on your mind. You and I could have one helluva Pity Party, but we both know where we have been and what we've been thru. Stay strong

Thanks Brother. It really helps me to get it out and talk to you guys about it. I really hope you are doing better. I remember you were facing some adversity as well. How are you progressing?

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[dorian123]

I contacted them today to file the claim, but refused to give a recorded statement. I meet with my attorney for this on Wed.

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good move, I got rear ended about 9 years ago...stupid kid was drunk and stoned, no license, no insurance, on probation, cops showed up arrested him for DUI...he couldn't do the stupid human tricks without having to pull his pants up every 10 secs

I got off lucky all it did was bend my bumper

kid acted like he didn't even care that he was getting arrested-because of someone else's irresponsibility you have to pay for it

 

[LEE GASPARI]

Thanks Brother. It really helps me to get it out and talk to you guys about it. I really hope you are doing better. I remember you were facing some adversity as well. How are you progressing?

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I'm doing very well, thank you. I am back training, and, yes, very carefully. I'm stepping back on stage in 2016 "come hell or high water". Good luck to you in all these difficult times. Don't hesitate to reach out to me. I'm a good listener, and at times I can give good feedback.

 

[Presser]

I'm doing very well, thank you. I am back training, and, yes, very carefully. I'm stepping back on stage in 2016 "come hell or high water". Good luck to you in all these difficult times. Don't hesitate to reach out to me. I'm a good listener, and at times I can give good feedback.

yeah? no shit! thats good news bro!

 

[LEE GASPARI]

yeah? no shit! thats good news bro!

Thank you Presser. I feel very fortunate.

 

[The Dude]

Wish me luck guys... tomorrow morning is my appointment with the surgeon to see if I have to have a second surgery

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[mkdk]

Sometimes life gets tough, a true challenge. About 15 years ago I got divorced, had back surgery and retired all together. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I too want to live in the woods or a cave away from everyone. Seriously though as long as you can walk be thankful. A few years ago I was an Ombudsmen for a long term care home. It was a volunteer position. I tell you what you think you have it bad well think again. These people are bed ridden. They are not all old either. Many spinal cord victims from motorcycle accidents live there. The room is usually shared and viewing is a small tv of some sort. The place smells like piss too. I would literally cry when i, left. Needless to say I quit the job after a year. i just couldnt take it. Truly sad part is the cost also. these places rob the people through exorbitant cost.

 

[The Dude]

Sometimes life gets tough, a true challenge. About 15 years ago I got divorced, had back surgery and retired all together. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I too want to live in the woods or a cave away from everyone. Seriously though as long as you can walk be thankful. A few years ago I was an Ombudsmen for a long term care home. It was a volunteer position. I tell you what you think you have it bad well think again. These people are bed ridden. They are not all old either. Many spinal cord victims from motorcycle accidents live there. The room is usually shared and viewing is a small tv of some sort. The place smells like piss too. I would literally cry when i, left. Needless to say I quit the job after a year. i just couldnt take it. Truly sad part is the cost also. these places rob the people through exorbitant cost.

Brother l am thankful. I'm very thankful. First and foremost for my amazing wife. She has helped me more than I could ever tell you guys about.
I'm also thankful because I know it could be worse. My surgeon said another car accident would leave me paralyzed so I dodged a bullet there. I have a tremendous amount to be grateful for, sometimes I just need to share my concerns and let it out.
I am really hopeful that I will be able to get a second surgery as the surgeon believes he can alleviate some of my pain and also do something about the nerve damage in my legs. I am just scared. It took alot to come back from this and psychologically it was very difficult.
At some point I want to be able to move on with my life and begin another career. The City I work for is trying to wait me out and I'm getting very frustrated. I doesn't seem as though the lawyers want to move it along either. This stuff has been at the forefront of my life for 19 months now. It's had a dramatic impact in all aspects. It is difficult for me to drive now. I am in constant pain. Both dull ache pain and sharp knee buckling pain... it feels like my soul is tired

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[dorian123]

my wife just had a tendon surgery and she is on crutches, this is her 5th surgery...the 1st 2 were a tendon repair on her knee, the 2nd 2 were hip replacements-shit head doctor fucked up the 1st one

hang in there-hopefully the doctor can help the nerves and ease your pain-they can be tricky

my wife is frustrated that she won't be able to work out like she use to and is basically stuck in bed right now but it's better than a wheelchair

life can be tough and can really suck at times

gotta take the good with the bad-shitty thing is at times it seems like there is more bad than good, that's why it pisses me off when you have people that have never had hard times want to pass judgement