Gotta a date any advice??

DoubleWide22

DoubleWide22

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Well since we have soem femals here maybe they can give me some advice. im going on a date with my boss on friday. she;s a bit older then me and a real class act. very down to earth and real girl. its her bday and we;ve been flirting for months and ive been trying to hint at everything and she flirts back quite a bit as well. there is alot of curiousity between the two of us. so she knows im dieting and she has been dieting for along time dropping weight.s hes on weight watchers. so i casually asked her what she was up to on friday and she said nothign then i just played it cool and said ok and today i said if you ant some company i;ll take you out on friday. and she jumped at it.im stoked cuz shes the type of girl you can realy learn from plus shes hot. so i think were just going out for drinks and maybe a walk and a movie. just some other tips to really get in would be good. shes getting flowers for her bday and a few other thoughtful things hehe.

on the other hand dont tell me about getting involved with someone at work. im quitting soon to go back to school anyway, plus i could care less i just wanna tag her if thats the least we get from it hehe.
 
Id suggest you take the fun laid back girl to a fun laid back place.
You dont want your first date to be in some overcrowded or over posh restaurant or bar. Show her that you care about her. I think alot of the time at least for me the littlest things matter the most. Good luck :) Dont really know what else to say play the cards your dealt and have fun.
 
Get her some flowers and just be yourself. Try to take her some place that you could talk more and get to know her better, maybe take her to play pool or something. And that's sic man older women are where it's AT! :satan:
 
Heres my advice, dont date ANYONE you work with. Enough said, Im still learning from that lesson everyday! BUT, if shes that HOT, and you are quitting soon anyhow, rule #1 DONT talk about work, anything but work, thats not the only thing you have in common, you have ALL day at work to talk about work.
 
order her a bunch of roofie coladas to drink so hopefully she wont realize that you are a ugly beast...then just be yourself
 
Dude, Flowers? Sounds like thats a little unnecessary at this point. She's older and single, she knows whats up. Sounds like the alcohol isnt even necessary. You have no problems, you might need a few drinks so you dont blow it, but she's already in bed...I mean on board. But if you must, the flowers should seal the deal. Hmmm older chick and younger body builder stud, she's counting her aging lucky stars.
 
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Yeah bro, I don't know how old she is, but older women are GREAT!!

No games. They know what they want, and it's usually the same thing we want.

Flowers are overboard, but never bad. Go somewhere you can talk--you can't get to know someone at a movie. A lounge-type place is really good if there's one in the area. Music isn't too loud and you don't have the usual drunks that will be there.

Throw in some drinks to lower the inhibitions, and you should be off to her place in no time.

Good luck.
 
Take the flower money and use it to buy a 1/2 gallon bottle of Jose. Then go for a hike in the woods. After the bottles done tell her you feel 1/2 animal. Maybe the other half of the bottle will go to the other animal.
 
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Since you're quitting soon, I don't think there is much problem dating her--though you still have to be careful while you're still there. What exactly do you want? Do you want a relationship or just sex? Usually, females want more than just sex--that's why you have to be careful with a work relationship. I'd just go and have fun--make it casual, no pressure, no expectations. One thing that usually impresses a woman though is when you show you care--chivalry goes a LONG way.
 
swolja said:
Yeah bro, I don't know how old she is, but older women are GREAT!!
No games. They know what they want, and it's usually the same thing we want.
Throw in some drinks to lower the inhibitions, and you should be off to her place in no time.

Good luck.
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Agreed. Maybe she is well aware that you are leaving and just wants to tag you as well. Before she misses her chance. Women think exactly like men nowadays. Plus if she flirts with you, that's a great sign that you are in.

Best advice would be - you said she diets and is on weight watchers. Compliment her on that dude. Tell her she's looking really good and making good progress or some bullshit along those lines. Will make her feel great about herself and more confident to try stuff with you. Good luck!
 
i dont agree with playing with a woman just to get some ass. thats f-ed up. i dont think thats what you're saying because it sounds like you are genuinely interested, just wanted to respond to some of the comments earlier. be a gentleman bro, bring her some flowers and if you know what type of candy/flowers she likes surprise her with them. listen for suttle things she says that you can surprise her with later (like favorite movies, places to go, foods, flowers, things to do...). personally i think a true gentleman is hard to find these days, be that guy. open her door for her and walk her to her door to say goodnight. treat her like a person. if you really want to suprise her, dont touch her boobs the first time you kiss :eek: . seriously, dont treat her like a piece of ass but as a person and you will knock her socks off...gettin' down and dirty will come later but dont force it on her. i think a lot of girls mess around with a guy the first night because they want the guy to like them, not because they necessarily wat to.

any women here feel free to correct me if you think i'm wrong.

and btw, irishpride is jealous of my hotty with a naughty body.
 
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LMFAO, A little sucky sucky. It's hard to say i've been that gentlemen MANY times and i find out after the fact that they don't like being treated all special, they don't like me opening doors n shit for them! Women can be frustrating to say the least.
 
Dont buy her anything........establish your dominance in the bedroom and she will be paying your bills in a week or two. Tap it til you cramp up and fall off the bed in a little knotted ball.

Once she's able to walk let her leave by herself if its your place.......if she's old enough she'll understand that when your done your done. :)

P.S. dont use a condom. Let her enjoy the love juice........have her swish it around her mouth like fine wine.

P.S.S. If she gives good head say " good job" after she's done.
 
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