Haven't got laid since my girl got prego

[cloudstrife1218]

I'm going insane. She won't have sex anymore dudes.....Its been 12 weeks.....almost 13 now......I"m so pissed off all the time.

What the hell do i do?

 

[Presser]

got me man, it was the opposite for me, my wife wanted it while pregnant and i didnt want to touch her lol, afraid of poking my kids in there, as she carried twins and was huge lmao

 

[monster-ish]

I'm on the same boat bro. My chicks 8 months. The first couple months she was horny as hell and since about month 5 it's been pretty much sexless. It's been a pretty tough pregnancy on her and sex is painful for her. Wish I could help out brotha lol...


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[cloudstrife1218]

A part of me feels bad for feeling this way. But I lovd sex. Lol

 

[Soulreaver]

My wife did the same with our first child out of inexperience and worry. Your two new best friends for the next 9 months are going to be porn and your right(or left) hand. It gets better after the child comes(and breastfeeding stops lol)....TRUST ME. Also congrats on the baby!

 

[Iron Game]

You understand how hormones are brutha. Its bound to bounce back. Until then SUCKS!

 

[yellow snow]

Word to the wise, don't watch the delivery...........you will never look at her the same again.

 

[crackerd]

Congratulations brother..... I was lucky, my wife always wanted sex and look unbelievably sexy while pregnant. We have 4 kids and I would love another but she's not having it!! Be patient and explain your frustrations to her. Good luck brother, it's a wonderful experience. Definitely DON'T watch the baby come out, nasty a hell and hard to over come lol.

 

[Mountain_Man]

Congrats and just suck it up bro its all u can do

 

[The Dude]

Have you calmly talked to her about it? Obviously be smooth and empathetic, but you can never go wrong telling your partner how you feel and what's going on.

 

[cloudstrife1218]

I've delivered babies. I don't think it's gross. Lol.

And yea I've talked to her. She just makes excuses

 

[Macedog24]

How prego is she? Different trimesters, she will,change. The last trimester my wife was always ready to have sex
At the drop,of a hat! And was very aggressive. . This is unusual for her.

 

[cloudstrife1218]

She is 14 weeks atm. It's getting better. I'm just not used to her having a low libido. Me n her could have sex like 2 or 3 times every day and it not be anything abnormal. It's just such a big difference and it's killing me. She told me the other day that she has just been too tired and her hips and boobs hurt too much.

I understand why she is that way. It's just rough and I'm trying to be supportive. I just want laid. Lol

 

[Macedog24]

The first few months are rough, especially with morning sickness, and her boobs so sore. Once her hormones settle in a little more, and her boobs start to really grow, she will,want it more than you!! When my wife had my sons shenwas aggressive, a real horn dog. She wanted it all the time. But in the beginning, she was always sick and didnt feel good. Once sshe starts enjoying being prego, where everything doesn't hurt or make her sick, she will become the aggressor. Lol... hormones ......if we could only control them for her ... omg could you imagine!! Just be patient and make her feel good , sexy... do things that woulf normally put her in the mood.. certain food or music or dancing or movies... perfumes,colognes.
.that is as long as she still isnt in that stage where every smell makes her wanna throw up

 

[cloudstrife1218]

Lol, yea, I"m trying.

We actually got into the first big fight of our relationship the other day. She normally doesn't yell or even raise her voice, let along get super worked up. But the other night, we just let loose on each other, and were yelling like crazy ppl. It was actually great for both of us, because we both got a lot off of our chest, and then we calmly talked about it all after that, then we cuddled and went to sleep, lol.

Pregnant chicks are crazy.

 

[Valkyrie]

My wife hasn't felt like having sex much since she first found out she was pregnant and that was 7 years ago.

 

[Iron Game]

My wife hasn't felt like having sex much since she first found out she was pregnant and that was 7 years ago.

Same situation, you get used to it! Ashley Madison or righty...

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Even the new viagra for women only increase's desire one out of 30 days. Not worth the risks

 

[Macedog24]

My wife hasn't felt like having sex much since she first found out she was pregnant and that was 7 years ago.

Lol, i know the feeling more than you know! My wife diagnosed with lupus after our last child isabella. She no longer has the desire for sex at all.. i can feel your pain!