I know you don't want to lose the money you paid, or disappoint your friends. However, this is the situation. You will be going to jail most, most likely, if you go down to pick it up. So you really have no choice in the matter. This is the risk you and your friends took when you decided to place an order. Hell, it's the risk everyone takes. Great advice above...chock it up to a loss and move on. Deny everything always, and tell each one of your friends to quit talking about it. Save your money and buy from somewhere else next time.