Hi everyone!
I need some advice. How do you get rid of a stalker? He is not the innocent follower like the ones in the past.
This one lives out of state, but has been to Michigan. He is my friends step brother. When I went to watch my friend graduate from college I met this guy. Very nice guy...until he came up to Michigan with my friend. He caught me alone and the rest I will leave silent (because there is no reason to say anything).
This kid thinks what he did to me should make me fall in love with him. Just like any other girl it made me shower constantly and wear baggy clothes. I was stupid for continuing to let him talk to me and be nice to him. I thought (stupidly) it would make everything go away. I slowly stopped writing back, answering the phone, etc. Then he started calling at all times of the day and writing nonstop.
When he kept asking me how I felt about him I "beat around the bush" and never really told him. Then one day he flat out told me he loved me and I have to share how I feel about him. I told him he was a nice guy (big lie), but that I did not love him the way he wanted me to. He went crazy after that. Telling me different things like I lie and that I'm a horrible person...most stuff I'm not sure what he said, b/c I'd hang up, delete the voice mails, or not read his stuff...besides the texts messages.
It's harder for him to get up here, but he does know where I live. I don't read anything he sends anymore, but he won't quit writing, calling, texting, etc. I get more and more nervous that he's going to come up and do something crazy. Is there a way other than calling the cops (b/c they can't do anything unless something happens to me) or doing something illegal. I'm starting to get really nervous.
Thank you very much!!!
I need some advice. How do you get rid of a stalker? He is not the innocent follower like the ones in the past.
This one lives out of state, but has been to Michigan. He is my friends step brother. When I went to watch my friend graduate from college I met this guy. Very nice guy...until he came up to Michigan with my friend. He caught me alone and the rest I will leave silent (because there is no reason to say anything).
This kid thinks what he did to me should make me fall in love with him. Just like any other girl it made me shower constantly and wear baggy clothes. I was stupid for continuing to let him talk to me and be nice to him. I thought (stupidly) it would make everything go away. I slowly stopped writing back, answering the phone, etc. Then he started calling at all times of the day and writing nonstop.
When he kept asking me how I felt about him I "beat around the bush" and never really told him. Then one day he flat out told me he loved me and I have to share how I feel about him. I told him he was a nice guy (big lie), but that I did not love him the way he wanted me to. He went crazy after that. Telling me different things like I lie and that I'm a horrible person...most stuff I'm not sure what he said, b/c I'd hang up, delete the voice mails, or not read his stuff...besides the texts messages.
It's harder for him to get up here, but he does know where I live. I don't read anything he sends anymore, but he won't quit writing, calling, texting, etc. I get more and more nervous that he's going to come up and do something crazy. Is there a way other than calling the cops (b/c they can't do anything unless something happens to me) or doing something illegal. I'm starting to get really nervous.
Thank you very much!!!