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Some may know of this and others may not. Dr. Kevin Lehman has studied and written books about birth order and how it affects you as far as your issues and character traits. Very interesting stuff (to me).
I am wondering what your issues are and where you are in the birth order.
I am a classic first born in that I am a perfectionist and rarely satisfied with my performance or success. I find failure or the possibility of failure as one of my biggest motivators. I would be considered a control freak in alot of ways but only about things that I deem important. As an example - my home must be kept very tidy but my vehicle, I could give a shit if it is clean or not.
I must control the things that impact me and my family. However, I am not a control freak of other people - ie, my wife. Of course, if you knew her you would know that she could kick my ass at the drop of a hat. The bitch don't play. hehe
If you are a middle child or last born, you have to give the gender of your siblings AND how many years that separate you from them. The reason is that if there is a big enough gap in time and/or the gender is different, you could be a middle child but have first born traits if the gap is large enough (in years) or the sibling is the opposite sex.
Just curious and thought it would be fun to see the make up of alot of the guys and gals here.
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I am wondering what your issues are and where you are in the birth order.
I am a classic first born in that I am a perfectionist and rarely satisfied with my performance or success. I find failure or the possibility of failure as one of my biggest motivators. I would be considered a control freak in alot of ways but only about things that I deem important. As an example - my home must be kept very tidy but my vehicle, I could give a shit if it is clean or not.
I must control the things that impact me and my family. However, I am not a control freak of other people - ie, my wife. Of course, if you knew her you would know that she could kick my ass at the drop of a hat. The bitch don't play. hehe
If you are a middle child or last born, you have to give the gender of your siblings AND how many years that separate you from them. The reason is that if there is a big enough gap in time and/or the gender is different, you could be a middle child but have first born traits if the gap is large enough (in years) or the sibling is the opposite sex.
Just curious and thought it would be fun to see the make up of alot of the guys and gals here.
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