Feeling depressed and screwed

Guys I had a little problem happen the other day
this is a little embarrassing to talk about but I can't talk to any one else about this.

ive always wanted to be this sexy stripper Greek god, right now my body looks the best it ever has, exspecially from the back. My glutes and quads and back shoulders look really good. So any way, ol'lady was at work. And I got out of the shower and passed by the mirror. And I went man I look hard this morning. So I put some combat boots on that Are my gym boots, their bad ass pyllidium boots. So I put them on butt naked.....I did a sumo squat I front of the mirror and snapped of few shots with my phone over my shoulder. I took a few pictures of my ass and back. Stripper style. Well I sent them to my ol'lady at work thinking she would get turned on and come home a lick my asshole and give me nasty sex. Nooooo it did the way opposite. She kicked open the door when she came home and demanded to see my phone. She looked at the pics I took and said. Is this what you do when I'm not home? Take pictures like your some stripper discusting ***? She told all her sisters and my brother and mom and dad she thinks I'm gay now. In the pictures you can see my asshole and balls hanging and everything. She showed every body those pictures and totally embarrassed me..

Any way I feel fucked up and depressed now. I can't even look at my parents now. I don't know how to fix this. What I get for being horny by myself. And being a pervert

I'm sorry bro that is just funny as fuck. But fucked up at the same time. That your ol'lady showed everybody the pictures.
I have a few questions for you.
1.) Is she your girlfriend or wife ? Because if she was my girlfriend I would never send shit like that to her.
2.) Who is your favorite bodybuilder? Hopefully not Kai.
Lol.
But seriously bro I think I would kick her ass out the fucking door just for showing her family the pics. That is just fucked up. I would never trust her again and would never be able to tell her anything. But I'm somebody that it takes alot for me to trust people anyway. Wow she did srew you brother.

Thats fucked up man if she is your life partner she should no way do shit like that. Its just a laugh and a bit of fun right..she should see it like that. I swear the other day I was getting very hairy down below..so got the hair remover cream out and went to town..after I had finnished I sent a close up to her iphone..well she was on the bus and was very embarrassing for her but she saw it at a joke. And my wife is Catholic. I dont mean to be rude but is she a prude and the type of women that wont get naked in front of u?,..that real nasty thing to do..post some pics of her and she how she feels. If she is not your wife kick her in to touch and go and live the dream..

Man thats some funny shit, and the explanation and visuals i got while reading had me laughing my balls off lol, as for your girl showing people and family. Well thats whacked no matter how ya slice it

Man, I have to agree brother. My smile and laugh went away really quick as I got to the end of your post. So, I'll just identify with you and say that my lady and I do this kind of shit all the time. But, we have fun with it like a normal "freaky" kind of couple should buddy. You know, use it as a turn on for some nasty sex. I'll send her naked pics from work and she'll be all hot and bothered and ready to go when I walk through the door. She's not as care free as I am with taking pictures of herself, but she sure as hell wouldn't show them to anyone. And especially not her family or mine!!! That's just fucked up.....I would hate to see what she would do in a real situation and was pissed over something major man. Women are bendictive anyway, but this one seems really mean bro.....No offense meant.....

Peace

I have to say the pictures I had in my mind had me howling as well..I can kinda see her point it is proper gay shit..lol..sorry bro but it is kinda funny u doing that..

next time you take a nasty shit in the toilet take a pic of it and show all her family and friends...say this is the kind of animal I live with, who the hell takes a pic of their shit and then sends it to me?

Well guys thanks for relating me a bit. See it's a long story, lots a history between us. She's not my wife but we have been together for over 6 years. We have been living In the same house for 1 1/2 yrs. any way we used to have so much fun together and have always been kinky fun couple. We have always been bathroom bandits, in the beginning we would pick ransoms spots In public places and fuck. Like jcpennys or dilliards. Or even on road trips we would fuck on the side of the road or we would always go out to the lake and fuck out in the bush's. it it all started fading away slowly. I ended up cheating on her and she found out. Very stupid mistake on my part.

Any way she is a damn good woman. She loves me but hates me now too. She does stuff now it seems to pay me back for all the hurt I caused her. It is my fault. But damn I've been really good and would never cheat on her again. I just want things back the way they used to be.

Some times I feel like saying fuck it and leaving but she really is a good woman. She looks very classy and she is quiet and shy, and beautiful. Has a career and owns her own car and house. And cooks and cleans and does my laundry and let's me have sex with her any way I want. She is the woman every guy dreams of. Classy in public and freak in the sheets. But I screwed that up. I can't take her paying me back every chance she gets.

We fight hard. She slaps me hard. And let me tell you guys my woman is a Mexican girl that is all tits and ass. She is 150 pounds, nothing but tits and and big hips and ass. She is built to have some kids. So when she slaps me she throws them big tits of hers in to it. Fucking hurts. Her waist is a size 3 ok. But she has E bra size. And an ass that a black girl would envy. Like I a said 150-155 of nothing but hips add and big tits.

But my point was is when we fight she tells me she doesn't think I'm sorry and wants to see me feel like she did. I'm trully sorry but I can't sit and cry with years in front of her. And I know that's what she wants is to see me cry. Like I'm busted in side.

What do I do?? Please I'm serious I would appreciate any advice

I can't quite understand her reaction. Why did she think you were gay? She realized that the pictures were of you, for her, right? Seems like she thought the pictures were of someone else or that you had taken them for someone else. I think you definitely need her to explain why she reacted the way she did.

Also, I think you should tell her that there are many ways to betray trust in a relationship and cheating is only one of them. She betrayed your trust by showing your pictures to others.

Brother all I can say is sounds like you at her mercy. They always say you can forgive but you will never forget. But to me it sounds like she's going to do neither. Yes you did fuck up my cheating on her. But if she loves you she will have to put it in pass. This might not be what you want to hear. But maybe it's time for you to give her an ultimatum. That if she can't get over what you did to her you guys are never going to have a life together. Life is too short brother.

Get out now, it will be rough but get away.

Clearly she has issues with you and she ain't getting over them..what u did crossed the line and what she did is wrong as well..but man she ain't got no right hitting u..if your hitting her and she is defending her self ok..but she slapping u about that ain't right..abuse is wrong on both sides end off peroid full stop. I dont know shit about u guy's.but she needs to know that this is going the wrong way..ckearly she is not over it..if u love her tell her u guys need to talk it out with family planning or therapy..if she means that much let her know put a ring on her finger let her know how u feel..if it still dont work out..well u try'd every thing.

yeah you might want to go to counseling or something and see if that helps

what you two are doing now isn't working

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I went through a love/hate relationship once and it sucked...I walked away-that wasn't easy but it had to be done

we didn't have kids so it was easier than most

Thanks guys I'm gonna try and talk to her tonight. I made her dinner, she is at the gym right now. So I made her dinner and bout her some flowers. She loves flowers.

I'm kinda scared Im not gonna lie, Im the man no doubt here and she know not to push me to far. I have never hit her and never will I'm not like that. But when she's pumped up and ready to go I get alittle nervous, Latin women can be extremely violent. They'll burn your cloths and smash the windshield of your car with out thinking twice about it.

You have some real cahones to post something so personal so I give you kudos for that. After getting more of what happened before the event you originally posted about, I understand completely. I'll weigh in from my own experience.. She is still very angry with you for cheating, and that's most certainly driving a lot of what is going on between you. Latin women certainly are fiery. My wife is from Brazil, so she is very much like your girlfriend in attitude except that she's of Japanese descent, but even a tiny 5' 1" petit woman can throw some serious slaps. I cheated on my wife a few years ago (I won't go into the reasons), and when she found out, she was angry as hell. Even though we don't have any kids (can't have any), she decided to stay with me, but it has been a hard battle for her. For almost a year she would periodically have to let out her frustration and practically slap me silly, and small things would set her off in the same way because she was always suspicious. She, too, wanted me to feel like she did. We were counseled that she needed to stop hitting which she has done for the most part, and she has been trying to get to that point where she could choose to forgive me. For me, I needed to be patient with her, even if I have to let her hit me at times, but not escalating anything and talking calmly. Over the years I have been showing her as much as I can that I'm there for her and try to understand her point of view. I'm still being patient with her, she's working with me, and we talk occasionally to let each other know where we are in the relationship. I would add that in the counseling, we were told that we needed to make the decision that we were either going to work with each other or get out the relationship—especially if she couldn't stop the physical abuse (because that is what it really is). I suppose it comes down to the fact that you will both need to sit down and discuss without accusing what happened and the reasons for them, how you both feel, and what you each need to do to make it better if you are going to stay in the relationship—and you will have to outline an actual plan. Can't just say some general and have no actual goal or method to reach the goal. It isn't fair to either of you to stay if either one of you (or both) doesn't make the effort.

With all that said, I earnestly wish you good luck and hope for the better.

Presser really wants to see the picture, supposedly for research purposes.

I too give ya kudos brother. Takes a man to post it up and ask advice. Especially knowing how some of these guys are going to react. What BigZ said is hittin the nail on the head brother. I have nothing to add to that. Enough said.
Peace and Good Luck