No doubt, the last few months have been bad for me. I won't get into details, and some would even say my problems aren't that bad, but for me it's all new territory. And I'm finding myself unable to deal with these issues - I've never had this problem before. I've always been independent and don't go to others for help (others come to me for help). That's how my family was, you learn to fend for yourself and you do it at a very early age.
It all started at the beginning of summer when I lost my job. So finances have been a big stessmark on my lately. In fact, I am probably worse off financially than I have ever been in my life. That being said, I've always kept my cost of living very low and therefore, I am making ends meet. All be it barely.
I lost my job and it was my fault. I fucked up. Again, no details but that I'm sure of. So I do know where my anger comes from, it comes from the fact that I am extremely disappointed in myself. That makes matters worse, cause there is no one to direct the blame onto (and I'm trying like hell not to blame others for my faults). I do believe in second chances, but the economy doesn't. In my line of work, you fuck up once (these days), and your record is tarnished. In fact, I just got my degree in this line of work, and it's practically useless now.
I've always held my self-worth in the fact that I have constantly moved forward in life....up to this point anyways. This combined with a handful or near relationship ending fights with my g/f (again, mostly cause of my fuck ups) and other more minor disappointments and I find myself angery, bitter and frustrated almost constantly. Alot of this stems from the fact that lately, I have made alot of bad decisions. This is very out of character for me. It seems no matter what move I make, its the wrong move. But everything I've been taught growing up is that that worst thing you can do is nothing. Quite a catch 22.
I no longer have medical insurance (and make alot less) so I cannot seek professional help on this (well, that AND pay rent). Even if I had the resources, I don't have much faith in shrinks cause I was raised to fix my own problems.
I've been on this board almost a decade, and a few bros here have been with me the entire time (and well before me). I've never met any of you, and probably never will. But right now a room full of strangers with one thing is common is the only place I can open up..
I have alot of self control, but my fuse is extremely short now and I'm afraid of what will happen when I am pushed. You always hear of peopling "snapping", and I now realize what that really means
Im open for any ideas
It all started at the beginning of summer when I lost my job. So finances have been a big stessmark on my lately. In fact, I am probably worse off financially than I have ever been in my life. That being said, I've always kept my cost of living very low and therefore, I am making ends meet. All be it barely.
I lost my job and it was my fault. I fucked up. Again, no details but that I'm sure of. So I do know where my anger comes from, it comes from the fact that I am extremely disappointed in myself. That makes matters worse, cause there is no one to direct the blame onto (and I'm trying like hell not to blame others for my faults). I do believe in second chances, but the economy doesn't. In my line of work, you fuck up once (these days), and your record is tarnished. In fact, I just got my degree in this line of work, and it's practically useless now.
I've always held my self-worth in the fact that I have constantly moved forward in life....up to this point anyways. This combined with a handful or near relationship ending fights with my g/f (again, mostly cause of my fuck ups) and other more minor disappointments and I find myself angery, bitter and frustrated almost constantly. Alot of this stems from the fact that lately, I have made alot of bad decisions. This is very out of character for me. It seems no matter what move I make, its the wrong move. But everything I've been taught growing up is that that worst thing you can do is nothing. Quite a catch 22.
I no longer have medical insurance (and make alot less) so I cannot seek professional help on this (well, that AND pay rent). Even if I had the resources, I don't have much faith in shrinks cause I was raised to fix my own problems.
I've been on this board almost a decade, and a few bros here have been with me the entire time (and well before me). I've never met any of you, and probably never will. But right now a room full of strangers with one thing is common is the only place I can open up..
I have alot of self control, but my fuse is extremely short now and I'm afraid of what will happen when I am pushed. You always hear of peopling "snapping", and I now realize what that really means
Im open for any ideas