Girls that go after married men?!

[Buffalo]

Presser, Buffalo, Silk and others, thanks so much for sharing. Its always nice to know that your not alone, and others go thru the same things in life.
If I figure it out, I will defeniatly write that book and dedicate it to Presser!
Buffalo, I plan to stick around, not going to leave the wife, can't do it man, not in me, said I do for richer or poorer, sickness and health. We are high school sweathearts. Been together since her 16, me 17. We were each others firsts.
Shes my soul mate. Maybe thats why biologically a mans testosterone levels are suspose to drop after 30ish so it reduces the libido. Maybe I'm messing with mother natures plan using testosterone.
I've joked about giving the wife a shot of test while shes sleeping, would that be assault and battery?

That's good, bro. I know sometimes we have to just vent and sometimes we are able to step back and make sense of things a lot more after that.

You should try that little test of not pushing or mentioning sex for a time frame. I gave myself two months and after a few days I can see so much improvement in our relationship. When she got home this morning we laid in bed and she got real close to me and fell asleep in my arms. That doesn't happen and I think it is because she thinks I'd be feeling her up which in the past I would have. The best of all, no blue balls:thumbsup:

I'm sure because your test levels are through the roof that has something to do with the pressure of having to have sex. I mentioned to my wife that I was planning on taking Melanotan and told her the sexual side effects and she was really interested in it. I'll probably be ordering her some PT141 after this little test period.

I wish you the best brotha!

 

[georgeinaltus]

I decided a few months ago to stop even trying to have sex. I got so tired of iniating everything that I stoped completely trying. No asking, no begging, no gropping. Nothing. It first started as a 2 week trial to see if it would work. The weeks turned into months bro, with no change. At that point I'm getting more and more frustrated cause she made no moves whatsoever. I began to think that she must be cheating on me or something and confronted her. She denied anything.
I've had Pt 141 in the house in the past , even when we were still sexually active and explained the side effects for women, and she refused even then. Your a lucky man if you have a wife willing to experiemnt with pt 141. Mine had nothing to do with. Offered to get female viagra, and nope she wont touch it.
Right now I'm staying away from melotan and Pt 141. The sexual sides would cause me to wind up divorced right now if I took them.

 

[big in vegas]

Get some GHB for the wife, she'll never remember and won't randomly assume she was drugged. That takes care of the sex problem. It's wrong and immoral, but that's a man for you

 

[big in vegas]

And of course that's more for humor than actual advice, I'd never do that

 

[exbeanpole]

Going on 17 years for me and my lady Lil Lifter. I'm extraordinarily blessed to have a drop dead gorgeous woman who's sex drive matches or exceeds mine. It took several of "I'm at the end of my rope" moments for both of us to get where we are now. A lot of tears, panic attacks, and sleepless nights. Therapy for me was the answer and my only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner. It almost always comes down to a few fundamental issues that have gotten lost over the years because of a lack of communication or an unwillingness to admit certain truths about ourselves we're either ashamed of or are fearful of being judged on, which is sort of the same thing. Often times the issue is within. It's all easier said than done and I hope you can works this out for your sake and your families. Hang in there brother!

 

[Buffalo]

Going on 17 years for me and my lady Lil Lifter. I'm extraordinarily blessed to have a drop dead gorgeous woman who's sex drive matches or exceeds mine. It took several of "I'm at the end of my rope" moments for both of us to get where we are now. A lot of tears, panic attacks, and sleepless nights. Therapy for me was the answer and my only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner. It almost always comes down to a few fundamental issues that have gotten lost over the years because of a lack of communication or an unwillingness to admit certain truths about ourselves we're either ashamed of or are fearful of being judged on, which is sort of the same thing. Often times the issue is within. It's all easier said than done and I hope you can works this out for your sake and your families. Hang in there brother!

Right there, bro.

It took a lot of painful conversations of truth. But why not get the truth from the one person in the world that is there no matter what. She heard a lot from me and I heard a lot from her. For a long time I would go through a whole day of thinking of her leaving me and I found that I was making myself have those thoughts, not her at all. Yeah, the forearms are getting a workout bro, but I am truly happy right now and just have to work on myself and not be a "guy" and worry about being a partner.

I wonder if if you guys go to therapy if something will be brought up that she is going through. Women are crazy bro, they fall into depression for no reason and some with good reason. Last year my wife's brother went through a horrible divorce, he is still a freaking mess. Her uncle died unexpectedly, we live far from our families. One little thing that helped was visiting family more.

One thing that really helped is dating again. Doing stuff like we use to do and most importantly courting her again. To tell you the truth I love doing the romance crap. I surprised her with dancing lessons for us, I finally used my miles and booked lots of little trips, finally did all those "to-do's" she's been wanting me to do. One funny thing that in our conversations that she didn't like was that I didn't drink. One constant fight we would have was why I couldn't have one freaking beer. Now we have drinks together and she loves it! I always had the notion of who would not be happy of a husband that doesn't go out with the guys and stays home all the time and works out. Now she loves it when I go have a drink with the guys or outside with my neighbors. Those are small things but things I would never have done on my own.

 

[big in vegas]

Lots of good advice in here