I dont mean to gloat, but my gf is the best partner that Ive ever had. My other partner got 9th in the superheavies at the USA's, but Im just not on the level that he is. My girl is very strong and serious and is very motivating. She used to do bodybuilding, but now does fitness. Im the biggest and leanest Ive ever been and Im not 100% recovered from my pec tear surgery. She makes all my meals and makes sure I get my protein and calories. I think Im just that 1 in a million who was blessed in every possible way (her). I think if you have to ask, you already know the answer.