Dorian123 and I had a chat..
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Damn NVS... free therapy!! LOL!! Great advice girl!
Dorian you just have to keep searching. What's wrong with just kicking it with a chick until you find the right one? Stop trying to force it.... just let it happen. You're still young... 30 is the new 20!
There's nothing wrong with dating a few women @ the same time as long as they know they're in an open relationship. So they'll be free to date others as well. Can you handle that? Just find some women to have fun with... one may turn out to be a keeper you just never know. But this dating one person @ a time hoping she'll be the one is not realistic. You need a team. LOL!!
Sex is another issue all together... a woman being a lousy lay is just crazy! LMAO!!! You can teach her or tell her what you want and need. Maybe she was nervous the first time. I suspect you're having sex VERY soon like maybe a one night stand kind of thing? You cannot expect a woman who sleeps with you after knowing you for a few hours a keeper or even a possible Team player. Get your groove on then kick her to the curb...
Dorian you just have to keep searching. What's wrong with just kicking it with a chick until you find the right one? Stop trying to force it.... just let it happen. You're still young... 30 is the new 20!
There's nothing wrong with dating a few women @ the same time as long as they know they're in an open relationship. So they'll be free to date others as well. Can you handle that? Just find some women to have fun with... one may turn out to be a keeper you just never know. But this dating one person @ a time hoping she'll be the one is not realistic. You need a team. LOL!!Sex is another issue all together... a woman being a lousy lay is just crazy! LMAO!!! You can teach her or tell her what you want and need. Maybe she was nervous the first time. I suspect you're having sex VERY soon like maybe a one night stand kind of thing? You cannot expect a woman who sleeps with you after knowing you for a few hours a keeper or even a possible Team player. Get your groove on then kick her to the curb...
1FitChica said:Damn NVS... free therapy!! LOL!! Great advice girl!
Dorian you just have to keep searching. What's wrong with just kicking it with a chick until you find the right one? Stop trying to force it.... just let it happen. You're still young... 30 is the new 20!
Sex is another issue all together... a woman being a lousy lay is just crazy! LMAO!!! You can teach her or tell her what you want and need. Maybe she was nervous the first time. I suspect you're having sex VERY soon like maybe a one night stand kind of thing? You cannot expect a woman who sleeps with you after knowing you for a few hours a keeper or even a possible Team player. Get your groove on then kick her to the curb...
Words of wisdom!!
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dorian123
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yeah I've tried the online dating thing before, it's all bullshit too, like I said there really isn't much I haven't tried...
anyway, I've been thinking critically on the matter and to fall back on objective philosophy here is what I've come up with
the 1st thing I have to ask myself is,what is the nature of the thing (the thing being myself)...I am a warm blooded male mammal and aside from humans there are no other warm blooded male mammals on the face of the planet that participate in monogomy...therefore I'm fighting my nature...3 billion years of evolution
back in the caveman times the caveman didn't ask the girl what she wanted he clubd her on the head and dragged her back to the cave, i.e. treated her like shit and she came back for more because that's why girls these days like being treated like shit, can't fight 3 billion years of evolution
the human male can produce millions of sperm a day and it's in our nature to try to conceive with as many females as possible to continue our DNA strand and keep the human race alive...how many guys here think of other women while having sex with their better half? nothing wrong with that-it keeps you faithful
being a single guy I won't have to think of other women I'll just go find them...and yes there always is that dry spell I'll run into when I'm in a fucking hillbilly town such as this one, but it gives me time to think like nowleased:
and when I go somewhere else I more than make up for the lost timeleased:
such as 1fitchica said, date multiple women (such as I did in my mid20s) I had a stress free social life, and if one of the girls was mad at me I had 2 or 3 more to fall back...and if she still was pissed at me I threw her away like a used needle and got a replacement
the bottom line is I'm a FUCKER, not a lover, not a boyfriend, not a father or a husband but a FUCKER...I don't even know what the hell making love in bed is??? is this some sort of special technique? can someone give me an example without some vague ass Dr. Phil shit?
I FUCK like the guys in porno movies do, long fast and hard-never had a complant about it, plenty of complements...why? because that's what a FUCKER does :thumbsup:
the down side though, is afterward I have listen to the girl tell some stupid story about how she shafted her dumb ass boyfriend into paying her rent for her...thanks bro-I use to be you...but then I wised up
though spending these past few days brainstorming, I was wondering if there is any way that I could somehow psychologically engineer my thought matrix process into making me a full blown narcist. I could diet down to a super cut 225lbs, spend some time in the tanning bed, and masturbate in the mirror while making eye contact...and the best part about the masturbating is that I could pick up girls and half way through the fuck session I could tell her that she bores me and finish the job myself in front of the mirror
If she wants to watch that's fine I'm not selfish
and if anyone thinks that's a bad attitude you have a whole legion of skeezers to thank for conditioning what use to be a nice guy like me...and I'm not the only that feels this way, I just speak up
guys quite wasting your time WAITING for the special one to fall in your lap-you'll be waiting a while. and if she ever does fall in your lap hey that's great, but do whatever your want until then...because she is :coollook:
anyway, I've been thinking critically on the matter and to fall back on objective philosophy here is what I've come up with
the 1st thing I have to ask myself is,what is the nature of the thing (the thing being myself)...I am a warm blooded male mammal and aside from humans there are no other warm blooded male mammals on the face of the planet that participate in monogomy...therefore I'm fighting my nature...3 billion years of evolution
back in the caveman times the caveman didn't ask the girl what she wanted he clubd her on the head and dragged her back to the cave, i.e. treated her like shit and she came back for more because that's why girls these days like being treated like shit, can't fight 3 billion years of evolution
the human male can produce millions of sperm a day and it's in our nature to try to conceive with as many females as possible to continue our DNA strand and keep the human race alive...how many guys here think of other women while having sex with their better half? nothing wrong with that-it keeps you faithful
being a single guy I won't have to think of other women I'll just go find them...and yes there always is that dry spell I'll run into when I'm in a fucking hillbilly town such as this one, but it gives me time to think like now
leased:and when I go somewhere else I more than make up for the lost time
leased: such as 1fitchica said, date multiple women (such as I did in my mid20s) I had a stress free social life, and if one of the girls was mad at me I had 2 or 3 more to fall back...and if she still was pissed at me I threw her away like a used needle and got a replacement
the bottom line is I'm a FUCKER, not a lover, not a boyfriend, not a father or a husband but a FUCKER...I don't even know what the hell making love in bed is??? is this some sort of special technique? can someone give me an example without some vague ass Dr. Phil shit?
I FUCK like the guys in porno movies do, long fast and hard-never had a complant about it, plenty of complements...why? because that's what a FUCKER does :thumbsup:
the down side though, is afterward I have listen to the girl tell some stupid story about how she shafted her dumb ass boyfriend into paying her rent for her...thanks bro-I use to be you...but then I wised up
though spending these past few days brainstorming, I was wondering if there is any way that I could somehow psychologically engineer my thought matrix process into making me a full blown narcist. I could diet down to a super cut 225lbs, spend some time in the tanning bed, and masturbate in the mirror while making eye contact...and the best part about the masturbating is that I could pick up girls and half way through the fuck session I could tell her that she bores me and finish the job myself in front of the mirror
If she wants to watch that's fine I'm not selfish
and if anyone thinks that's a bad attitude you have a whole legion of skeezers to thank for conditioning what use to be a nice guy like me...and I'm not the only that feels this way, I just speak up
guys quite wasting your time WAITING for the special one to fall in your lap-you'll be waiting a while. and if she ever does fall in your lap hey that's great, but do whatever your want until then...because she is :coollook:
dorian123
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sorry Noel don't mean to be a hater here, but you can't argue with the theory of evolution...try reading the book called the Evolution of Desire, it picks up where Charles Darwin left off from a psychological point of view
once again don't hate the player hate the game-you seem like a nice girl that's probably why your married and haven't been subjected to all the bullshit scams in the modern single world today
it doesn't make sense, never has, but that's the reality of it...I can either come to terms with that and accept it for what it is or I can sit here and hold on the glass hope that, that special someone is out there waiting for me
everything seems to run smoother for everyone when I just have sex and date and to hold on to a pipe dream that quite frankly will probably never happpen is me just torturing myself instead of coming to terms with "what" I am...not "who" I am
have to figure out the what before the who
the brainstorming these past couple of days getting input from people who have never met me, so the opinions are not fabricated...has been interesting
and since you asked NO I'm not on anything right now-tend to be in a better mood when "on cycle"...probably due to the endorphines
once again don't hate the player hate the game-you seem like a nice girl that's probably why your married and haven't been subjected to all the bullshit scams in the modern single world today
it doesn't make sense, never has, but that's the reality of it...I can either come to terms with that and accept it for what it is or I can sit here and hold on the glass hope that, that special someone is out there waiting for me
everything seems to run smoother for everyone when I just have sex and date and to hold on to a pipe dream that quite frankly will probably never happpen is me just torturing myself instead of coming to terms with "what" I am...not "who" I am
have to figure out the what before the who
the brainstorming these past couple of days getting input from people who have never met me, so the opinions are not fabricated...has been interesting
and since you asked NO I'm not on anything right now-tend to be in a better mood when "on cycle"...probably due to the endorphines
noel
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ok i said i wasnt participating anymore but here i am... this sounds crazy or damn near impossible but why not try to find some innocent over 18+ year old virgin, mabey she'l lbe so sprung on you, yo uwont know what to do. i guess you probable wouldnt want that drama either ,blowin up your cell and email'n ya all night long..." were are you " lol hey at least you have us here at m.c. although theres not alot to mastrabate too... sorr y !!! lol
dorian123
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ha ha ha ha ha, that was pretty good post noel, I don't care I'm just going to go with the flow whatever happens so be it-no big deal
and just for the record the narcist/masturbate thing was an attempt at dark humor again...you'd have to be pretty stupid to do something like that-doesn't that kinda defeat the purpose of being in someone else's company? :satan:
and just for the record the narcist/masturbate thing was an attempt at dark humor again...you'd have to be pretty stupid to do something like that-doesn't that kinda defeat the purpose of being in someone else's company? :satan:
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I have been really enjoying this thread. It has taken quite a twist i must say.
Such intense graphics too. :shocked:
Dorian, you are very articulate and very smart and have quite a way with words..and believe me you are terrible at masking the way you feel .lol
which is a good thing
Reading through this thread I have come to the following conclusion..yet again:
A guy who can express himself like you do must be really good at manipulating situations. I find it hard to believe you would have any problem at all in a relationship, because if you can communicate with your partner the way you communicate with a bunch of strangers on the internet, you will be married before you know it. Trust me. I honestly think something very recent must have taken place in your personal life, that gave rise to these self centered feelings.
What did that skeezer do to you??
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I have been really enjoying this thread. It has taken quite a twist i must say.
Such intense graphics too. :shocked:
Dorian, you are very articulate and very smart and have quite a way with words..and believe me you are terrible at masking the way you feel .lol
which is a good thing
Reading through this thread I have come to the following conclusion..yet again:
A guy who can express himself like you do must be really good at manipulating situations. I find it hard to believe you would have any problem at all in a relationship, because if you can communicate with your partner the way you communicate with a bunch of strangers on the internet, you will be married before you know it. Trust me. I honestly think something very recent must have taken place in your personal life, that gave rise to these self centered feelings.
What did that skeezer do to you??
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dorian123
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actually No, nothing has happened to me recently aside from the fact that I have been doing a lot of thinking and the conclusion that I've come to is basically to fall back on what I know-friends w/ benefits
if it happens so be it, if not then that's fine too
let the chips fall where they mayleased:
life is too short to worry about stupid shit like this, why waste time wondering what someone's opinion is of me that probably never cared in the first place, when the only opinion that should matter is my own
someday maybe I can find someone to compliment that, and if not that's fine to...better to be alone than with the wrong person :uhoh:
if it happens so be it, if not then that's fine too
let the chips fall where they may
leased: life is too short to worry about stupid shit like this, why waste time wondering what someone's opinion is of me that probably never cared in the first place, when the only opinion that should matter is my own
someday maybe I can find someone to compliment that, and if not that's fine to...better to be alone than with the wrong person :uhoh:
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