yeah I've tried the online dating thing before, it's all bullshit too, like I said there really isn't much I haven't tried...
anyway, I've been thinking critically on the matter and to fall back on objective philosophy here is what I've come up with
the 1st thing I have to ask myself is,what is the nature of the thing (the thing being myself)...I am a warm blooded male mammal and aside from humans there are no other warm blooded male mammals on the face of the planet that participate in monogomy...therefore I'm fighting my nature...3 billion years of evolution
back in the caveman times the caveman didn't ask the girl what she wanted he clubd her on the head and dragged her back to the cave, i.e. treated her like shit and she came back for more because that's why girls these days like being treated like shit, can't fight 3 billion years of evolution
the human male can produce millions of sperm a day and it's in our nature to try to conceive with as many females as possible to continue our DNA strand and keep the human race alive...how many guys here think of other women while having sex with their better half? nothing wrong with that-it keeps you faithful
being a single guy I won't have to think of other women I'll just go find them...and yes there always is that dry spell I'll run into when I'm in a fucking hillbilly town such as this one, but it gives me time to think like now
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and when I go somewhere else I more than make up for the lost time
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such as 1fitchica said, date multiple women (such as I did in my mid20s) I had a stress free social life, and if one of the girls was mad at me I had 2 or 3 more to fall back...and if she still was pissed at me I threw her away like a used needle and got a replacement
the bottom line is I'm a FUCKER, not a lover, not a boyfriend, not a father or a husband but a FUCKER...I don't even know what the hell making love in bed is??? is this some sort of special technique? can someone give me an example without some vague ass Dr. Phil shit?
I FUCK like the guys in porno movies do, long fast and hard-never had a complant about it, plenty of complements...why? because that's what a FUCKER does :thumbsup:
the down side though, is afterward I have listen to the girl tell some stupid story about how she shafted her dumb ass boyfriend into paying her rent for her...thanks bro-I use to be you...but then I wised up
though spending these past few days brainstorming, I was wondering if there is any way that I could somehow psychologically engineer my thought matrix process into making me a full blown narcist. I could diet down to a super cut 225lbs, spend some time in the tanning bed, and masturbate in the mirror while making eye contact...and the best part about the masturbating is that I could pick up girls and half way through the fuck session I could tell her that she bores me and finish the job myself in front of the mirror
If she wants to watch that's fine I'm not selfish
and if anyone thinks that's a bad attitude you have a whole legion of skeezers to thank for conditioning what use to be a nice guy like me...and I'm not the only that feels this way, I just speak up
guys quite wasting your time WAITING for the special one to fall in your lap-you'll be waiting a while. and if she ever does fall in your lap hey that's great, but do whatever your want until then...because she is :coollook: