We had a talk about women and why in our present time and age its hard for men to find women to settle down with. Times have changed and so do people and per my conversation with Dorian123, women today seem to be less conscientious of a man's efforts in making a relationship work. Women seem to be more money driven and less appreciatve.
Now I think it has alot to do with the type of women a man is attracted to...there is no rule as to why some people seem to be more materialistic than others but i think its all in how you treat a person that makes them take advantage of your generosity. Dating must be hard for guys the older they get, because they seem to get more picky and look for single women who are more independant and really don't NEED a man to provide them with anything, so its easy to be taken for granted in a situation like that.
Now a woman with some sort of direction in her life, knows where she's going and what she wants is attractive indeed, but its the vulnerability and neediness of the female gender than a man is attracted to subconsciously.
A man LOVES to be needed and wanted..its a natural instinct for men to be providers...but why have we pushed it so far that relationships and marriages seem to fall apart due to a lack of communication, contribution and appreciation...?
What do you guys think?? What do you look for in a woman and why is it hard for you to date nowadays?
nvs
Now I think it has alot to do with the type of women a man is attracted to...there is no rule as to why some people seem to be more materialistic than others but i think its all in how you treat a person that makes them take advantage of your generosity. Dating must be hard for guys the older they get, because they seem to get more picky and look for single women who are more independant and really don't NEED a man to provide them with anything, so its easy to be taken for granted in a situation like that.
Now a woman with some sort of direction in her life, knows where she's going and what she wants is attractive indeed, but its the vulnerability and neediness of the female gender than a man is attracted to subconsciously.
A man LOVES to be needed and wanted..its a natural instinct for men to be providers...but why have we pushed it so far that relationships and marriages seem to fall apart due to a lack of communication, contribution and appreciation...?
What do you guys think?? What do you look for in a woman and why is it hard for you to date nowadays?
nvs