If you could change one thing

[Badgermoon]

There are a few things I would change, but since we can only pick one, right now I'd say I would like to change the fact that my daughter won't speak to me. I still think her mother had a lot to do with that. Regardless, I miss my little girl.

 

[chelle]

There are a few things I would change, but since we can only pick one, right now I'd say I would like to change the fact that my daughter won't speak to me. I still think her mother had a lot to do with that. Regardless, I miss my little girl.

That's sad. I'm sorry to hear that.

 

[BLEED GREEN]

I agree, sorry to hear that as well, It stinks when divorced/seperated parents use their children as pawns

 

[footballcat]

There are a few things I would change, but since we can only pick one, right now I'd say I would like to change the fact that my daughter won't speak to me. I still think her mother had a lot to do with that. Regardless, I miss my little girl.

BG i feel you man, i see how much this tears a parent up. My bro hasnt talked to my mom for 6 years, thats some bull shit. Man I feel you. Can i be your little girl, i wear a skirt and stuff

 

[jaywooly]

BG i feel you man, i see how much this tears a parent up. My bro hasnt talked to my mom for 6 years, thats some bull shit. Man I feel you. Can i be your little girl, i wear a skirt and stuff

As long as it's not too short...

 

[LA]

There was a Star Trek TNG episode that asks this very question. It seemed that Capt. Picard was killed due to a shock to his artifical heart. If he wasn't a brass cocky cadet in the academy he wouldn't have gotten into the fight where someone stabbed him in the heart.

Well, enter "Q". "Q" sends Picard back to the academy to let Picard change this piece of history. Then afterwards he brings him back to the future. Picard then finds out he wasn't Capt. anymore. Just some lonely Lt. with no future in Star Fleet. By changing his personallity he changed his future. Everything that he became was due to his reckless youth. Taken that away, and he wasn't much of a man.

Something to think about when regretting life's past.

 

[BLEED GREEN]

Good episode-An alien stabs him in the back and thru his heart

 

[Badgermoon]

Wise words LA. I guess it gets slippery when we start to dabble with the past, while not knowing the future. It is tempting though to think of changing one of the things we percieve as a past mistake. God knows we all have them. I just hope I can learn the hard lessons without having to repeat them.




But I'd still change stuff...

 

[Choke03]

Damn Badge, that is heavy. I can't imgine that type of pain.

 

[Max-HC]

Badger i feel for you, it upsetts me bro, my baby girl is my world
try and talk to her she needs her daddy good luck bro i pray it works out...

 

[Saks]

If I could change one thing I would replace midgets heart with a new one...oh wait I forgot he doesnt have one to begin with....if I could change one thing I would have went straight to college after high school and got the hell up out of charlotte, NC

are you talkin about MWC?

 

[Saks]

I was the fat kid in the MC T-shirt

 

[Badgermoon]

Thanks for the sentiments bros and bras. It has been hard sometimes. Life is like that sometimes. I guess its something you don't get over, you just learn to deal with.
The good news in it all is that she's doing very well, and I'm happy to know that. Doesn't make it any easier,but it is always good to knw your children are ok.

 

[Max-HC]

your a good man badgermoon

 

[T82]

I would change my attitude towards myself over the past year and a half. Somewhere along the line, it started to decline to a point where I was really lost. It took me a while to finally find my way back to where I want to be, and I'm still not fully there yet.....

...but it's getting better now and thats what I try to focus on.

 

[learner202]

Badger I don't know you on a personal level, but I feel for you. I am lucky to have a close family and could not imagine if I didnt

 

[Badgermoon]

The seperation from my kids and my divorces have been my biggest challenges. Nothin else compares so far.

 

[Badgermoon]

T-82... I'm glad to hear that you are getting back on track. I don't know what you were dealing with but I'm glad you're getting things put back in place.

 

[bigshug]

Badger, you're too good a guy for someone to refuse to talk to.....I'm certain you could work through that one

I can't imagine.........

 

[Sachet]

I would change my attitude towards myself over the past year and a half. Somewhere along the line, it started to decline to a point where I was really lost. It took me a while to finally find my way back to where I want to be, and I'm still not fully there yet.....

...but it's getting better now and thats what I try to focus on.

All that matters is that you got back up
Ya know, I kinda went through the whole 'lost thingy' too when my breakup happened.
It's as though I was adjusted to considering the other half with everything, that when you find yourself without them.. you're not used to the ease & freedom to do what YOU want.
My friends used to get all over me because I would call home if I wanted to do something with them to clear it with him..
They would call me d*whipped *lmao* but, I would have expected a phone call if he was going to do something.
Afterall, you are supposed to be the most important person in each other's life, so a lil respect goes a long way.
Anyway, I guess it's just a matter of getting to know yourself again & allowing enough time to 'regroup' that will make all the difference in treating our next guys right

Since I have two years worth of 'regrouping' *lol* on ya..
*touches your pointerfinger tip with mine & gives you a ~*girlie power*~ zap to keep you looking forward, rather back*