WesleyInman
National Strongman Competitor
Any of you guys experience this phenomena??
Mind you, I am not a giant guy, but i am carrying a decent amount of muscle after 20 years in the gym..
I have a shaved head aka thinning hair after a huge tren/accutane cycle....and I am stressed out alot, I don't feel super attractive like I did 10 years ago..
But not a day goes by where I don't get a compliment or phone number from women.
I was at the playground the other day and in 30 minutes I got 3 phone numbers from 1 unattractive woman and 2 very attractive girls..Mind you I am a single father...
But when I walked in I heard the women saying, look at that bodybuilder guy, he must be a bodybuilder or MMA guy..I want his number...I am not even a bodybuilder anymore, though I do look like one.
Mind you, I was wearing dirty jeans, sneakers and a tshirt...not feeling attractive.
Either way, I get hit on by women multiple times per day, every single day... I don't feel super attractive. I also don't give a shit....so busy with being a dad and everything else, women aren't a priority.
So I have asked several women I have slept with why they like me, and they all say they have never experienced a guy with a muscular body...so my thought is this.. you can look like pure shit, not care a bit, and still pull very attractive women if you are in shape..Either way it works for me.
I am convinced this is true. When I was younger and attractive and skinnier and tried, bought women roses and took good care of them, nothing. Now I don't try at all, carry a good amount of muscle and don't give a shit and women throw themselves at me.
Anyone else experience this, or is this just me??
Mind you, I am not a giant guy, but i am carrying a decent amount of muscle after 20 years in the gym..
I have a shaved head aka thinning hair after a huge tren/accutane cycle....and I am stressed out alot, I don't feel super attractive like I did 10 years ago..
But not a day goes by where I don't get a compliment or phone number from women.
I was at the playground the other day and in 30 minutes I got 3 phone numbers from 1 unattractive woman and 2 very attractive girls..Mind you I am a single father...
But when I walked in I heard the women saying, look at that bodybuilder guy, he must be a bodybuilder or MMA guy..I want his number...I am not even a bodybuilder anymore, though I do look like one.
Mind you, I was wearing dirty jeans, sneakers and a tshirt...not feeling attractive.
Either way, I get hit on by women multiple times per day, every single day... I don't feel super attractive. I also don't give a shit....so busy with being a dad and everything else, women aren't a priority.
So I have asked several women I have slept with why they like me, and they all say they have never experienced a guy with a muscular body...so my thought is this.. you can look like pure shit, not care a bit, and still pull very attractive women if you are in shape..Either way it works for me.
I am convinced this is true. When I was younger and attractive and skinnier and tried, bought women roses and took good care of them, nothing. Now I don't try at all, carry a good amount of muscle and don't give a shit and women throw themselves at me.
Anyone else experience this, or is this just me??
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