Muscle= SEX

[WesleyInman]

Any of you guys experience this phenomena??

Mind you, I am not a giant guy, but i am carrying a decent amount of muscle after 20 years in the gym..

I have a shaved head aka thinning hair after a huge tren/accutane cycle....and I am stressed out alot, I don't feel super attractive like I did 10 years ago..

But not a day goes by where I don't get a compliment or phone number from women.

I was at the playground the other day and in 30 minutes I got 3 phone numbers from 1 unattractive woman and 2 very attractive girls..Mind you I am a single father...

But when I walked in I heard the women saying, look at that bodybuilder guy, he must be a bodybuilder or MMA guy..I want his number...I am not even a bodybuilder anymore, though I do look like one.

Mind you, I was wearing dirty jeans, sneakers and a tshirt...not feeling attractive.

Either way, I get hit on by women multiple times per day, every single day... I don't feel super attractive. I also don't give a shit....so busy with being a dad and everything else, women aren't a priority.

So I have asked several women I have slept with why they like me, and they all say they have never experienced a guy with a muscular body...so my thought is this.. you can look like pure shit, not care a bit, and still pull very attractive women if you are in shape..Either way it works for me.

I am convinced this is true. When I was younger and attractive and skinnier and tried, bought women roses and took good care of them, nothing. Now I don't try at all, carry a good amount of muscle and don't give a shit and women throw themselves at me.

Anyone else experience this, or is this just me??

 

[Lightsout]

I had that problem in my last marriage. I started taking gear and putting on a lot of muscle and the woman was always asking about me. But I never let it get to my head. I was married to a bitch and I should of thou. Lol

 

[SilkQuads]

I love The Dudes muscles. I want a MAN! Sounds like a simple request, but now days real men are hard to find. It becomes a problem when other women want my man and his muscles. I can get a tad bit feisty and MY muscle would fuck them hoe's up!!! Lol

 

[irish2003]

the key is to not become one dimensional as a gearhead/bodybuilder/lifter, etc...i can say from the confidence along with appearance the quality of women i've slept with over recent years has become amazing, but the actual attention comes from all women...usually the fat/ugly ones talk to me since they must fee they have nothing to lose lol...

there was a blind study done years ago with various bodytype men wearing a tshirt for a day...then random women would smell each tshirt without knowing what kinda of many wore it...almost all of them chose the tshirt that was worn by the muscular man...

 

[Buffalo]

I get hit on constantly. I thought it was bad when I had my wedding ring on but it's a lot now since I broke my finger and can't fit my ring on it. At my gym even, my wife goes at separate times so no one ever sees me with a woman. A few weeks ago I was asked out by a gal that works there and then the girl that cuts my hair asked me is I wanted to meet her at the movies.

i know a lot of it is my fault, even my wife says to stop being so friendly. I like to throw a little flirt but I do talk a lot and talking to women is second nature.

 

[SilkQuads]

It's completely different for girls who have muscle (at least for me). I can't remember the last time I was hit on, which is not a bad thing being that I'm married...I'm not lookin for trouble! I wonder if guys are intimidated or it's just not their thing. I'm sure a little of both, but how sad that todays average man would be intimidated by a little muscle on a girl...oh we'll

 

[Buffalo]

It's completely different for girls who have muscle (at least for me). I can't remember the last time I was hit on, which is not a bad thing being that I'm married...I'm not lookin for trouble! I wonder if guys are intimidated or it's just not their thing. I'm sure a little of both, but how sad that todays average man would be intimidated by a little muscle on a girl...oh we'll

i think being hit on is a good thing. It's a good ego and confidence boost and makes you appreciate what you have.

Personally though women like you intimidate today's "man" with his skinny jeans and Abercrombie and Fitch skinny shirt with aviator sunglasses and flock of seagulls hair cut. You need some Dude kind of man lol

 

[irish2003]

I really don't know the difference from chics just being nice and friendly or hitting on me...I'm totally oblivious and pass by many opportunities I'm sure...

 

[Ring Steel]

Apparently I don't have enough muscle.

 

[WesleyInman]

usually the fat/ugly ones talk to me since they must fee they have nothing to lose lol...

This made me laugh..hahaha..thanks I needed that!

I really don't know the difference from chics just being nice and friendly or hitting on me...I'm totally oblivious and pass by many opportunities I'm sure...

Not I. I grew up with 5 sisters and my mother and all their friends around constantly. So I was always around women..learned all their tricks and tactics, body language, triggers etc.. I can walk into a room make eye contact with the women there, and pick out the girl who will sleep with me. Not to confuse I am saying I can pull any woman, because I cannot...but if there's one in the room that will -I immediately know.

I have found the less I care, the less I try, and the less attention I pay women, I never flirt with them or chase them, the more they like me. I outright ignore them...again I am a pretty average looking guy, not super handsome, not tall or dark. This is why I say muscle=sex....because it does the talking for me and for you guys too if you don't know it yet.

I think if women sense that you are not trying to get in their pants, they are more likely to sleep with you on the first date because they think that will make you like them. It doesn't. I very rarely like any of the women I sleep with.

 

[Lightsout]

I get hit on constantly. I thought it was bad when I had my wedding ring on but it's a lot now since I broke my finger and can't fit my ring on it. At my gym even, my wife goes at separate times so no one ever sees me with a woman. A few weeks ago I was asked out by a gal that works there and then the girl that cuts my hair asked me is I wanted to meet her at the movies.

i know a lot of it is my fault, even my wife says to stop being so friendly. I like to throw a little flirt but I do talk a lot and talking to women is second nature.

They don't care about a wedding ring. A ring can't plug a hole.. lol

 

[WesleyInman]

It's completely different for girls who have muscle (at least for me). I can't remember the last time I was hit on, which is not a bad thing being that I'm married...I'm not lookin for trouble! I wonder if guys are intimidated or it's just not their thing. I'm sure a little of both, but how sad that todays average man would be intimidated by a little muscle on a girl...oh we'll

Hmmm, not sure...One could argue that an overly attractive woman could scare away guys from hitting on them as well...

 

[big in vegas]

I've noticed it to some degree. When I was in high school I wrestled at 112# and graduated at 115-120#. I was in shape, but never stood out. Once I graduated and put on 55# in a year or so women started to notice me more. I'd go to the bar and get the attention I didn't have before. I don't give most women the time of day because I refuse to "try" to get laid. I'd rather go home solo than appear overly desparate to get laid. This in my opinion causes women to be more attracted.

I have a gf now and don't go out, but with my job I get a lot of interaction with women. I'm in a job where most of my coworkers aren't in shape so that helps for me because they get used to seeing an overweight guy then I come around in shape and actually take care of myself. It is weird because women act like men a lot more than I ever thought when you go to an office full of women or somehing like that

 

[SilkQuads]

Hmmm, not sure...One could argue that an overly attractive woman could scare away guys from hitting on them as well...

Yeah!!! I like that theory so I'll go with that! I'm just soooooo breathtakingly beautiful it's ridiculous! You are a smart one Wesley, aren't you the one who eats candy during your workouts? ...which is brilliant btw! The Dude says I'm not allowed

 

[big in vegas]

I'd go with that theory, if a guy doesn't have a huge self image then I can see where he might be intimidated to approach a woman that he thinks is out of his league

 

[SilkQuads]

Apparently I don't have enough muscle.

No! Just go with my theory, you're soooo stunningly handsome that you scare the ladies away!

 

[Ring Steel]

No! Just go with my theory, you're soooo stunningly handsome that you scare the ladies away!

Yeah, that's the ticket! I'm sure glad that I'm not Pinocchio!

 

[dorian123]

No! Just go with my theory, you're soooo stunningly handsome that you scare the ladies away!

that's amazing that you read my mind...I've been telling myself that for years

 

[MonkeyWrench]

Well, you are right Muscle=Sex. Several studies are showing this to be true. Studying what is attractive to men and women. You may be interested to know that more times than not when a women is ovulating she is attracted to muscular/bigger/ stronger males. Theory is that it's a genetic thing, as these men will more than likely father stronger healthier offspring. But, after getting pregnant women tend to be drawn to the caring supportive male, even if smaller, weaker. The woman now needs the male that will stick around and help take care of her and her unborn child for 9 months and stick around to raise that child.

 

[IronJulius]

i think when a woman rubs, touches, feels on me or talks about my muscles or tells me i smell good i think she is having sexual thoughts

silk the dude is huge that may be a reason you dont get hit on much. you have bigger muscles than most women and men so if i was to see you out i would think she is hot, really fit, i bet she has a big bf or husband i dont need to get caught staring lol