I too have three great kids Two boys & a girl. Starting with my daughter 20,19 & 16. My 16 yr old son is a high school wrestler, a great kid with a 3.7 gpa.
he truthfully does not drink or use drugs of any kind, however some of his friends do, including AAS.
My work-out partner is freakin huge and one day my son says do you think _ _ _ _ _ uses Steroids, I said what do you think, he says I don't think he could have got that big without them and that opened the door. He told me a couple of the senior wrestlers used AAS. When I ask if he thought that was a good idea, this was his reply, dad they are going to do what they want. I told him that I do believe in personal choice as long as no one else is being harmed. I also told him kids/young men at that age don't need AAS cause their natural test levels are at there peak and the potential for growth is already there, plus AAS at this time in there life could really interfere with nat. growth.
I'll quit rambling and wrap it up by saying I in no way condone the use of AAS or any-other drug by kids or any-body else, but I do feel you have to be honest and not try to bullshit them cause they will see right through it.
Its tough being a kid, they are forced to make decisions every day, some good some not. At least make sure they have the facts not useless bullshit... Just my $0.02 worth.
Grappler