i fell off and need some motivational advice

[BiggerFS]

Alright so I basically had the shittiest year of my life this past year. I don't want to get into the whole story, but basically some dumb bitch slowed my entire life up. I won in court, she went to jail for perjury, however, the financial restrictions, and time in which this happened could not have been worse. I was essentially on top of the world. I'm 27, just got my 4th degree with honors, signed a contract with viacom, and launched 2 successful websites. Long story short, a series of shitty things took place. My cars engine took a shit in me, I went into credit card debt from legal fees, and than after my car was fixed, I found out I lost my licenses from a clerical mistake, which I have back now. But with all this shit going on, and the mental debate of what to do for my life as a career, I became depressed, couldn't work out, or just quit going at some point. I feel like I am so behind now. I know I'm pretentious, and don't looks that bad. But I feel like shit and it is reflecting in my attitude. Does anyone who diets for shows out their,let me know that its not the end of the world. It was a lot easier when I was 5-24, I was a amature Jr Olympic athlete, and placed top ten at the 2004 Olympic trials. I had constant structure, and order than. Now I have none of that, and with nothing to keep me motivated, it is extremely hard to get motivated again. I'm insanely impatient, so waiting for results is frustrating. I just need some thing or someone to get me motivated again, so I can get my self respect back. Thanks again fellas.

 

[Metal85]

wow what were you in the Olympics for? There are a few people on here right now dieting for shows and im sure they can help you out but u will have to go into a little more detail as to what you are doing/trying to do, what your eating, your stats, your routines. Start a personal log under a new thread and people will give you great advice

 

[MMX2]

You had a shitty year- yes.
Been there- a few times, and I am 45.
But you need to find your focus again- and having a consistent training regimen will definitely help that.
You know you can do it- it takes a LOT of commitment to train for the Olympic trials- a very small percentage of people can say that.
You have to take the first step- gradually change your diet, gradually get back to consistent training program.
We are all impatient- but you know that it takes time,patience and a 100% effort to make things happen.
There are plenty of people here to help keep you motivated- its what we are about here- family.
Don't ever hesitate to ask.

p.s BTW- I like the avatar- been looking for a T-shirt with those M&M's...